I wouldn’t mind as long as he was now monogamous.
Hetero male, 34.
I dated and am still married to a bi sexual woman.
Even after 15 years of being together I still get a thrill when she says another woman has a nice rack.
We have had threesomes purely upon her request. I would never ask her to do it but I reserve veto power over any woman she wants to bring into our bed. And I did have to use the veto once when my wife wanted to bring in one of her oldest friends who is a pure lesbian. I figure that threesomes should be fun for all and a threesome with a lesbian wouldn’t be all that much fun for me. I also know the lesbian woman wants to steal my wife away. She has told me.
The other bi woman that we had a number of threesomes with is just fun. She is another long term friend of my wife’s (my wife maid of honor, even) and we all just get along great.
We do have some rules, though. Only she can request a threesome. Only with another woman. And no hooking up alone, even if we’ve had sex with the same woman many times before.
And the only time we’ve ever had problems with her sexuality was when I vetoed the fling with the lesbian. Otherwise it has been pretty much a non-issue.
I’m 27, male, and bi, and I tend to be attracted to bisexuals more than either heterosexuals or homosexuals.
Pansexuality is attraction to someone independent of their sex or gender, and includes transgenders and transsexuals. I’m bi, for instance, but am not sure I could be in a relationship with a trans person.
Seventeen year old female.
I wouldn’t have a problem with it. It fact, it could actually be kind of cool. As long as the guy was committed to me, I wouldn’t mind who else he thought was hot.
I was dating a bi girl for about year back about 10 years ago. It was a non-issue.
ETA: Male, 36.
Why are you less jealous of relationships with other men than those with other women?
That’s not what I got out of Sage Rat’s post; quite the opposite, in fact.
I’m in a similar situation now, although as it’s currently online only I’m still marking it up as a fever dream for now. My GF’s bi, and I’m less jealous of relationships with other women than than those with other men. She actually has a girlfriend too, but we all like each other, and my GF has stated many times she doesn’t actually want to live with another woman. So there’s nothing really threatening in the situation.
That’s because I’m stupid and typed the opposite of what I was thinking. In my defense I was distracted by a comely but vile coworker and may have been resisting the urge to strangle her.
22, gay male.
Easily, I’d imagine. I would actually be interested in watching him have sex with a woman, sometimes I watch straight porn, and if my bf were the star it would be HOTTT 
But let’s face facts. Dating someone of the opposite sex is supported by society. If you’re dating a gay man, you know he’s never going to leave you for a woman just because it would make his life simpler. As long as we’re talking about actual bisexuals here, not “I fooled around one time in college”.
45yo Straight Male
I’d be entirely in favor of it. I’d also have no problem with her continuing to have physical relationships with women, even if I didn’t get to participate. For whatever reason, it just doesn’t elicit jealousy from me the way her being intimate with a man would.
OK, thanks for the info. So a pansexual is similiar to a bisexual, just a BIT more open-minded it seems.
Female, 24. I’ve already dated and been in love with a bisexual man, and no, he didn’t cheat on me (or for that matter, catcall anyone, male or female, or whatever else people think those horny bisexuals can’t restrain themselves from doing). It wouldn’t bother me to date another bisexual.
I follow the same philosophy of dating as most people who would describe themselves as pansexual, but I call myself bisexual or queer, because, frankly, I think “pansexual” sounds goofy.
Thank you. QFT.
Plenty of bisexuals have fewer partners than straight or gay people – if anything, I’d say they’re so choosy when it comes to sexual and romantic partners they don’t want to rule out any potentials.
No.
30, gay male.
After J. Michael Bailey proved the truth of the old saying “You’re either gay, straight, or lying” (at least in human males), why would I want to?
There’s more than one way to turn someone on than one selected set of ‘stimuli’ (IIRC that study used visual images). Plus that’s kind of a small sample size to generalise to the whole world.
So it’s not really definitive proof.
Huh? A dude who’s dating a straight female and is interested in other females is not exhibitng signs of bisexuality.
Dear lord! You’re only 22? I’ve been lurking here for a long ass time and I’ve always had the impression that you were older. Much older.
No offense or anything, it’s just that my mind is blown and posting about it helps get it all back together.