I wasn’t the one who said it, but I’ll bite. To the extent that the government aid relieves a burden on the parents rather than provides help to the child, no public aid should be given. Lemme unpack that.
Unequivocally, if someone of sound mind deliberately mutilates themselves, they should not recieve government assistance. If I lop off my hand or gouge out my eye because I take an excessively literal interpretation of the Bible (And not because I am deranged or on drugs), I have no right to ask for disability checks. Hell, otherwise I might seriously consider lopping off a finger if it got me a big enough monthly check.
Of course, the children in question here did not choose the disability; their parents chose to wound them. Now IMO, these women are at minimum unfit to be parents, and at most criminal. But since the DCFS doesn’t seem to agree with me, they will be raising the children.
At least part of the rationale behind the parents of a disabled child recieving government aid is that those parents are facing extra burdens, and financial aid can help with the medical and related costs. But by these women’s lights they are not disabled; deafness for them is a cultural identity. A lifestyle choice, as the current terminology goes. One which the government is going to allow, and I guess I’ll have to accept it.
But I bloody well won’t pay for it. To ask the taxpayers to subsidize this sick little experiment is obscene. If they have extra medical bills because their child is deaf, these women can go without vacations, new clothes, expensive haircuts, makeup, cable TV and everything else for the next 18 years. I don’t give a rat’s ass. They wanted the extra expenditure.
The catch is, of course, that taking these things from the parents takes them from the kids as well. But they might just as well take the money given to them – which is ostensibly to help account for medical expenses – and go to Hawaii. They sure aren’t going to spend it taking the kid to a doctor. So what would they use it for.
So all you can do is have a social worker assigned to the kid for life, making sure she is recieving adequate medical treatment.
Which will probably include several million dollars’ worth of psychiatric bills in the long run.