I’ve used credit cards in a real pinch. In my case, I was younger and had crappy insurance, then got hit with thousands of dollars in medical bills unexpectedly (brain tumor scare). I had not enough in savings to cover it, and the hospital wouldn’t accept a payment plan of more than 2 monthly installments. It was that or hit up relatives. The interest, though, was so bad that I ended up asking my mom for a loan anyway (so I could stop paying $80+ a month in interest); I honestly wish I had just done this at the start. I paid it off early with the money I saved on interest.
However, it sounds like you’re over the edge right now, already. You’re letting utilities slide? The credit card payment is going to end up sliding, too, and you’ll be tempted to keep using it… then the usurious interest will start to really, really hurt. And you’ll have to keep adding to the debt, because you’ll need to start covering the interest. It’s a cycle.
If you feel you have no other choice, then I guess, go for it – but cut up the card after using it for what you planned. But if it were me, I’d make sure it was really, really necessary. During the lean times, I’ve done a lot of things to make sure I wasn’t living paycheck to paycheck, since doing so always ends up costing more in the end from penalties, fees, and interest:
- Finding freelance work of all different kinds. This can be hard to get started but honestly is easier than living on the cheap indefinitely. People make side money from all kinds of stuff (e.g. through Craigslist) - babysitting, walking dogs, yardwork, day labor, whatever.
- Selling stuff such as on eBay, Craigslist, and the odd garage sale. Pretty much everyone has stuff they don’t need.
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Really cutting expenses on anything fun, and stuff like clothes that you can generally wait on.
- Reducing gas use as much as possible.
- Cutting grocery costs a huge amount by cooking a lot at home and buying stuff that was super cheap (beans, rice, shopping at Aldi or Big Lots or other really cheap places).
In the end, while it sucked to make a lot of sacrifices earlier, I’m glad I did. Because of that, I was able to buy a house and stop throwing money away on rent; I could finally have pets, because I wasn’t constantly moving to avoid huge rent hikes… and so on and so forth. I’m doing fine now, my car’s paid off, and I’m making extra mortgage payments. I’ve known a lot of other people that make a lot more than me, but live poorer lifestyles because of their debt.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I play the credit card game - I filter all available expenses through credit cards to reap rewards. But I do this because I’m absolutely, positively sure I’m going to pay it off every month (I’ve set it up automatically out of my checking account, which is interest-bearing, and which I use instead of savings), and so for me, there’s no real risk. Still, I’d never recommend a credit card to someone who’s not planning to pay it off in full every month; the costs are just way too high.