Dad and Kids Movie Watch List

So I’m trying to introduce my 2 sons to good movies that they probably would never have any intrest in because they are to busy on their phones or busy watching clips of new stuff on youtube. Since my divorce 3 years ago, I’ve taken time on my weekends with the boys to show them good movies that I have always loved. Some older than others, but all good, in my opinion. More often then not, the boys loved them too, even when they thought they wouldn’t (Star Wars original trilogy.)

Here’s what they have watched so far and their opinions …

Willow - We all loved it.
Speed - Same
ET - Thumbs Up
Earth to Echo - Thumbs Up
The Dark Crystal - Thumbs Up
The Labyrinth - Ok
Ponyo - Thumbs Up
Iron Giant - Loved
My Neighbor Totoro - Loved
Beetlejuice - Thumbs Up
Star Wars , Empire, Jedi - Thumbs Up
Pee Wee’s Big Adventure - Thumbs Up
Edward Scissorhands - Sad, but Loved it
Goonies - Thumbs Up
Big - Thumbs Up
I know there were more, I can’t think of them all though … anyway, here’s my question to you : Do you think they could handle the
Hobbit
and
Lord of the Rings
series. My boys are 13 and 10. I’m concerned that they may get turned off a bit on some of the slower parts, but they do like fantasy and adventure, but I know that these movies aren’t all action and monsters and adventure all the time. So do you think I should try just the Hobbit (Movie 1) first and see their reaction? I had to basically make them watch Star Wars 1, they almost considered it punishment, but once it was all over, they liked it. I wonder if these will be the same. Do you think that there will be some parts that may involve explanation to the 10 year old. I think there may be, but I do think overall that they’ll like them.

Some I enjoyed with my kids at that age:

Spaceballs
Napolean Dynamite
Young Frankenstein
Lord of the Rings

Some good options in this earlier thread.

ETA: BTW, are “loved” and “thumbs up” the same rating?

Big Trouble in Little China
Batman (1966)

I think in this case “Loved It” ranks slightly higher than “Thumbs Up.”

Dragonslayer.

Good suggestions so far, but in regards to my original post, what say you all on Hobbit/Lord? Should I show the boys these films or wait a couple years?

I’d start them on Fellowship of the Ring and then on to the next two LOTR movies. If they watched The Hobbit first, it might turn them off of the better, earlier movies.

Some other suggestions:

Spirited Away
Raiders of the Lost Ark
Jurassic Park
Princess Mononoke
Forbidden Planet

My wife wasn’t thrilled when my kids (ages 11, 8, 7) watched LotR, but the kids loved it. 13 and 10 seems plenty old enough.

one that my two loved (then 8 and 10) was “Ferris Bueller’s day off”

How about The Bad News Bears?

The original? I wouldn’t. I watched it about a year ago and wow, that movie did NOT age well. I especially wouldn’t let a 10 year old watch it.

I know there was a remake a few years ago, but haven’t seen it so I can’t comment on it.

What about the Lemony Snicket series on Netflix? Or the movie with Jim Carrey?

Whatever you do, never ever let them watch The Phantom Menace.

The Color of Magic
Hogfather

Do you mean the risk of them being traumatized or of being bored stiff? Because I think the latter is much more likely than the former. (That is for the LOTR trilogy–I never bothered with the Hobbit movies.)

My kids like LotR, and they are now 12 and 13- I introduced them to it several years ago. I say go for it.

And I also have to agree with a lot of the additional suggestions: Spaceballs, Big Trouble in Little China, and all things Studio Ghibli (with the possible exception of From Up on Poppy Hill- great movie, but possibly a bit boring for kids).

You’re probably looking for theatrical released films, but how about the TV movies, The Night Stalker and The Night Strangler? these were the two Movie of the Week releases that featured the reporter Carl Kolchak. They’re only 90 minutes long and involve vampires & immortality. I was only 11 & 12 when I saw them, so the age fits your sons.
And, if they like these films you could watch the short lived (only 20 episodes) of the TV series spin-off: Kolchak The Night Stalker which featured a monster of the week.

Interesting. Thanks for the advice everyone.

I think I might start with Fellowship instead of The Hobbit. The backstory is pretty much told in the beginning of Fellowship, so it should be fine.

As much of a fan as I am of Studio Ghibli, I can think of several of their movies that probably aren’t good fits for 10 and 13 year old American boys. Along with From Up on Poppy Hill, I think they would likely be bored by Only Yesterday, Whisper of the Heart, My Neighbors the Yamadas, When the Wind Rises, and When Marnie Was There, and maybe The Tale of the Princess Kaguya. And the 10 year old at least is probably too young for Graveyard of Fireflies. And Tales of Earthsea is simply a lousy movie. So that leaves Castle in the Sky, Kiki’s Delivery Service, Porco Rosso, Spirited Away, The Cat Returns, Howl’s Moving Castle, and Arrietty as recommendations (he already mentioned Ponyo and My Friend Totoro.) Princess Mononokoe may or may not be too intense for the 10 year old.

*The Great Escape
Grand Prix
It’s a Mad, Mad…World
Slapshot
Stalag 17
Le Mans
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