I think another part of the problem is the sheer amount of change in the past 50 or so years. Sure, stuff had changed between my g-grandparents generation and my grandparents, but when my grandparents were kids, they were still farming with horses. Fashions had changed, there was a bit of new tech about, but they were still mostly doing the most of the same things that had been done for centuries in pretty much the same way.
Whereas just between me and my parents there’s been a huge change. My parents are still a bit unsure about the whole internet thing; they’ll occasionally buy something online, but they think it’s a bit experimental and risky and they’re not sure about it at all. The internet just isn’t important to their lives, neither of them have a smartphone and the wifi can go down for weeks before they think about fixing it. It’s more or less a silly extension of computer games with a few useful bits.
As an example of what this means to them; if I’m applying online for jobs and not getting interview offers, well, that’s the problem isn’t it? I’m messing about with the internet, not going there and handing the nice lady behind the desk a bit of paper, like I should be. They were told that’s how to apply for a job, and if I’m not doing that, well, it’s no surprise I’ve not got jobs as easy as them. Even if the places I’m applying to only accept online applications and there is no nice lady behind a desk.
After all, my mother has never applied for a job and not got it. I can show her all the job stats I want, but secretly she know it’s just because I’m not doing it right, like she was taught.
Deep down, I suspect a lot of older folks just think we’re all just doing everything wrong, because it’s not what they did, so whatever happens to the younger generations (except maybe their own descendants) it’s our own fault for changing things. They don’t think their generation changed everything, the kids who grew up after it was changed, that act differently in this new world, they’re the ones responsible.