Describe your ideal mate in three words or less

In My Humble Opinion
21

38, female, straight.

Good soul.
Sexy.
Confident.

22

Female, 33

Passionate
Intelligent
Temporary

23

Male, 42

  1. She’s
  2. My
  3. Wife

Also:

  1. Funny
  2. Caring
  3. Patient

I am blessed to have her and couldn’t live without her. She makes me whole and makes me want to be a better man.

24

I’ll go with twickster’s list of smart, kind, and funny.

Are you talking about bluntness, rather than honesty? The quality of honesty is a basic requirement, I think. Who would want a dishonest mate? Should we also specify sanity?

Just because “beauty” isn’t on someone’s top three list doesn’t mean they don’t care about looks at all.

25

Straight male 47

1.Not
2.My
3.Wife

:wink:

26

Intelligent, mature and witty

27

Attractive *
Cuddly
Interesting **

  • Attractive is entirely subjective but totally necessary. It’s not about physical perfection… just about finding a face I won’t mind looking at first thing in the morning for the rest of my life.

** …and by interesting, I mean the ability to have good conversations on a variety of topics - it’s a combination of witty and intelligent, plus a certain je-ne-sais-quoi that a lot of witty and intelligent people don’t have.
(oh, and I’m 29, female, straight)

28
  1. Smart
  2. Hot
  3. Funny
    AKA, MrWhatsit.
29

exactly
like
Mother

:stuck_out_tongue:

30

That college crush.

31

Hey, Oedipus! How’s it going, motherfucker? :wink:

32

42, male, straight, married

  1. Morning
  2. Blow
  3. Jobs

Props to Dinsdale’s answer too. :cool:

33

28 gay male:

  1. Intelligent
  2. Funny
  3. Attractive

In my experience if someone has 1 and 2 then 3 either follows naturally or develops.

34

66, straight male

  1. Must
  2. Have
  3. Breasts.

At my age I can’t afford to be fussy

35
  1. Satisfying
  2. Respectful
  3. Responsible

This was the result of an office poll.

36

26, F

  1. Joyful
  2. Curious
  3. Generous*

*Not with money, but with himself. Time, attention, willingness to help others, etc.

37

29, Female, Straight

Funny
Protective
Sarcastic, beacuse he’s going to be to put up with my smart ass. :wink:

38

Smart
Industrious
Kind

It used to be funny was always in there, but then I dated men who can’t hold a job.

38, straight, female, almost single…

39

50, male, straight:

  1. Really

  2. Big

  3. Rack

40

Straight female, 29

  1. Compassionate
  2. Curious*
  3. Good-natured

*Intellectually curious, or likes to explore new things or figure out how things work.