My father is a disability activist. I have always been taught to respect people with disabilites and treat them as humans, not with pity. However, I think that the way public schools handle developmentally disabled kids is the biggest crock in the world.
Why stick these kids in regular school with an aide, where they will learn nothing more than that they are “different?” They are not learning skills that will help them gain independance. I’m not talking elementary school, when I do think socialization is important. I’m talking high school. From my experiance in high school with the DD kids, they sit in a special ed classroom all day, participating in gym and music classes. How is this an education for them? How about vocational training, classes on how to live in a group home, and more “real life” situations, so that they can have a life of their own?
A friend of my family just died and she has a son with DD who is 36. He dealt with her death in his own way, bringing flowers to her grave. Now he’s blossomed, he’s taking care of himself, and gleefully announced to us that he shaved himself for the first time in his life. I don’t think he’s very rare, I think DD people are taught they can’t do anything, until they beleive it.
I do think there is a danger in isolating DD people, so that they see themselves even more in the context of being disabled and less of being a human. Any thoughts?
DON PEDRO: Your silence most offends me, and to be merry best becomes you; for, out of question, you were born in a merry hour.
BEATRICE: No, sure, my lord, my mother cried; but then there was a star danced, and under that was I born. -Much Ado About Nothing, Act II, Sc: i