Seriously, this shit again? I’ve said this before, but the funny thing about sexual assault is how many people don’t need a metaphor to understand it, they can just recferencel personal experience, or that of a close female friend or family member. It’s so simple, they don’t even need to compare being born with a vagina or having breasts to carrying money or wearing jewelry or driving a fancy car through the ghetto.
And besides, in most cases the scenario is closer to having a piggybank in your childhood bedroom, carrying a purse while on a date or having a joint bank account with your boyfriend or spouse.
Anyway, this thread has gotten surreal. While I agree that the Times article’s quotes showed the neighborhood citizens in a bad light, quotes are selected. Not everything’s taken down, not everything goes in the finished article. The bit about her clothing was absolutely useless and added nothing, unless you really needed to know that she was brutally raped, had been rumored to be ‘in a relationship’ (getting raped) by a teenager, and didn’t don a burqa. As someone else pointed out, if people knew so much about what was going on, they knew she was 11. Doesn’t matter if she was wearing pinafores or booty shorts, but if some 11- or 12-year-old reads that articles, that’s not the message they’ll get, and if it’s something they already believe or are told, it will reinforce their skewed view (not that the myth that revealing clothes make men rape women isn’t already aliveand well).
Yes! Tell 11-year-olds not to hang out with older boys or men in their 20s, or let them touch them in their ‘private place,’ or threaten to kill her before a gang rape. But anyone on here who seriously thinks that was the problem – that her kind, loving parents, friendly local police force and close-knit community cared for her in every way but forgot that little bit of advice – is a damned fool.