Quick answer to the OP: Neither. This is normal negotiation. You’re allowed to make a counteroffer, but any answer other than “Yes” leaves the offering party free to rescind it. However, I suspect that the college lost a good candidate due to their reaction. She made it quite clear that her terms were negotiable.
W’s letter is simple and matter-of-fact. I see nothing of “entitlement” in it. It’s simply a counteroffer: that’s what negotiation involves. A couple points could have been covered better; for example, the maternity leave: “You mentioned a maternity policy. Can I please have that in writing?”
For another, 3 new classes per semester: I interpret that as pretty obviously meaning three subjects per semester. I shudder to think of handling many more new subjects at a time. Is it really normal to be expected to teach four or more new subjects? I have a hard time imagining anyone doing a very good job of it. Is it possible that they interpreted her to mean she didn’t want to teach more than 3 classes? In any case, she should have said “subjects” to avoid such a silly mistake.
Maybe, maybe not.
I’ve done some job hunting through headhunters, and have gotten some excellent education on the process from them.
During job interviews, you have a primary goal: to get an offer. Once you have the offer, you can negotiate. Before you get the offer, don’t bring up any limitations or negatives or make any demands or requests. Get that offer. Once you have the offer, you begin negotiation. Once you have the offer, they’ve made at least some level of commitment to you, and your requests are put in a much better light than if they come up earlier in the process, and you could lose out to another candidate who didn’t. [Of course, you also have another primary goal which is to figure out whether this job is right for you. But that should focus on the nature of the work, not the terms and conditions of the employment contract.]
I admit that’s against my nature: I’m naturally very open. But I have to admit that it’s great advice.
Right. “It can’t hurt to ask” is incorrect. “It usually doesn’t hurt to ask” is closer, but maybe not in cases where you know there are many applicants for each position.
Right, though the reasonable response to this would be “No, we’d need you to start by xxxx.” However, they’re within their rights to say “Sorry, we’re no longer interested.” I think it’s a foolish response, but it’s their right.
In academia, it might be. If so, that was W’s mistake. It’s pretty sad, though, if no negotiation is acceptable. It’s far better to have clear terms of employment than to hope for things that were casually mentioned but are not specific in the offer, especially if any of them might be deal-breakers for you.
I’m glad you’re not making the rules. I’m not a particularly good negotiator; I’m sure I’ve overpaid for cars, for example. But I’d far rather speak for myself and have the ability to craft the agreement with the employer that suits us both, than to be stuffed into a pigeonhole.
Actually, I did once work for a University with pigeonholes, none of which fit. The guy I worked for told me the rules with a nudge and a wink and then said what would really happen. I hated that, but I went along with it – fortunately for a short period.
You’re wrong about common parlance, and you obviously have a bias towards empirical work and against theoretical work. You’re right that “research” has two levels: novel research versus study of existing work. However, novel research isn’t limited to empirical work! Philosophers do more than merely chew their intellectual cud: they actually think new thoughts (at least, ideally – I’m sure academia is full of cud-chewers, and that’s not limited to philosophy).
Where do you get that idea? Are teachers expected to teach 6 different subjects?
My guess is that one was a bad judgment call on W’s part.
If so, you’d pass on a lot of great candidates. My response would be “This person knows how to articulate what they want, and might be more aggressive at achieving results, than all those meek replies.”
Evidently not, or the reply would be "Here is our standard maternity leave policy. Where is it a standard thing? It’s common in industry, but every company has their own policy. I don’t know of any state or federal regulations, do you? What is the standard? Who defines this standard? Or are you guessing?
Then it’s a good thing the guy put it in the counteroffer, rather than assuming it would “just work out” because the job would have been a bad fit! Thanks for pointing out the value of a good counteroffer.
For you maybe. I think you’re a sexist.
Unfortunately, you’re probably right.
No it doesn’t.
Hmmm, maybe, but I don’t think I would. That’s something that could be taken very differently by different parties. I’d rather let my merits speak, and let them figure out that I have or will be getting other offers. This is a difficult card to play, but no doubt it has its moments.
Where is the lack of respect? Where is a lack of consideration? This is a COUNTEROFFER, which is precisely intended to define what you expect in addition to what was already offered. Have you actually negotiated new job positions much?
I think that’s the real issue.
I agree.
Yup, I was right. You’re a sexist.