No, nothing planned, not at all.
Why, I’m having one right now!
Kidding. Or am I?
Not really. My first was with a long-distance relationship guy that came to town and stayed in a hotel. I guess it was inevitable, really. Everything else so far just happened whenever, and the only planning in the future will be of the “I want to do X, let’s see if I need to buy anything for that” variety.
I think the virginity thing was planned, inasmuch as I would not have been interested in the guy for any other reason. Not my type at all, but safe, in that he had <lots> more experience and there would be no ugly attachments after it was all said and done. It went pretty much as planned, except for the taking 5 separate occasions to finish the job, as apparantly I had the Brandenburg Gate going on in there.
“When did you lose your virginity?”
“November of my senior year, I was 16”
“Where did it happen?”
“Um…waterbed, public park, bent over a motorcycle, waterbed again, back of some big old car”
Poor guy. Really killed his <enormous> ego. 
I’m doing okay, baby… but the better question is how is my husband doing 
He’s one lucky son of a bitch.
I don’t really think I’ve planned anything ahead of time. I might have been thinking “It sure would be nice if we/she…”, but that’s it.
It was not planned ahead of time. I would just like to say that I am probably one of the few living people on this planet who lost their virginity because of Magic: The Gathering.
Put down that Ladle!
People still remember that? Crap. And… capitalized?
Capitalized. Considering what you did with it I think the least you can do is offer it some respect.