So Jenn just got a note from Dick Cheney. Yes, that Dick Cheney. It seems that he wants to boost her ego, at the bargain price of US$2500, and invite her to a black-tie event at the White House. Fund-raising, you know.
Now, she’s not all that interested in paying a bundle for a little ego-stroking, but the question arises:
If it were a no-cost event, would you go to dinner at the White House? Even if you don’t necessarily support the current occupant?
Only if I were going to get some tangible benefit from the event, e.g., a good chance at a job with the CDC. Otherwise, I see no reason to spend any amount of time with people I loathe merely because said people are famous.
I would still decline. I will always try to avoid eating food with people I despise, no matter what (temporary) office they hold, and I’m not at all concerned with whether or not anyone else believes that to be rude.
Jenn’s motivation would be for the experience: The whole White House Dinner thing; Excellent food, The Navy Musicians, The Marine ushers, the chance to actually meet the Power Elite and see for herself what they’re like. I think I’m feeling the same way.
The father of a friend of mine almost managed to score this. He lives in the DC area, has the same name as some ambassador, and got an invitation to a White House dinner meant for the other guy. He knew it was a mistake (he’d gotten the other man’s mail before), but was going to go anyway. Sadly, he blew it when he called the White House to ask if he could bring his wife – the ambassador in question is not married.
Of course I’d go! It’s the White House… I mean, how many times do you get invited to that? Even if the President was someone I didn’t support at all (say if Gore won).
I wouldn’t go to dinner because I wold be uncomfortable about getting food on a rented tux. Besides, I’m a picky eater and I’d feel bad declining some meal I didn’t even recognize.
But I’d go if invited to something ELSE – a reception would be best, or a press conference, or some ceremony of state.
I’d try to score some liquor off Bush’s daughters. If they didn’t have any, I’d offer to buy some for them. I’d mention to George that my ticket was originally for the Enron CFO, but the RNC wants him to “lay low” for a while. I’d ask SS agents if Bush is really as dumb as he seems on TV. I’d be arrested, but released as soon as they decided to pay me hush money rather than put me through a humiliating (for them) public trial.
Can they have a political fund raising dinner at the White House? I thought you couldn’t do that. You can’t make fundraising calls from the White House, so I would assume a fundraising dinner would be illegal too?
Perhaps Russ Feingold or John McCain is on the board to enlighten me.
Well, I know that it is an imperative of good manners that you never turn down an invitation to dine at the White House unless you have some reason of dire importance.
However, I don’t know if this rule applies to dinners that you are charged to attend.
The OP didn’t specifically say that the President would be there, only that it would be held in the White House.
Sorry, FisherQueen. Yes, the invitation specifically stated that the President and First Lady would be present (barring exigencies of state, of course).
Re-reading the invite, however, I note that it does not specifically state that the dinner would be at the White House, just that the ‘private’ dinner would be in Washington, D.C. So, I’m guilty of an assumption, BobT. It’s probably at a hotel or some such. I’d still go, just to see what a dinner with the ‘man’ is like.