Hmmm… here less than three weeks and already picking fights with Tomndebb, one of the most mild-mannered, intelligent and articulate posters around (have you ever pitted someone tom?) This is gonna be interesting.
Anyway, I’ll watch your SDMB career with deep and abiding interest, Ki42.
Indicating that with more posts in that particular thread, it might have eventually become humorous. To which I responded
to actually get to the point of being funny. I did not, have not, nor would I suggest that you need to post less frequently or more frequently. I was simply curious as to why you felt that your own thread needed more posts to obtain “the chance to get funny” (emphasis mine).
Nah. And I’m unlikely to start now. I simply responded to Ki’s question here with an attempt to provide an answer. Ki took umbrage at my explanations (which is his right, of course) and we have been exchanging views on the topic for a couple of days. I do suspect that Ki’s apparently thin skin and obvious lack of reading skills will serve him ill, over time, but everyone deserves a chance to learn and grow. I might even be mistaken; perhaps he is simply having a bad week.
I like your attitude. Good advice. I recently had to report someone who was trying to goad me into an ongoing argument. Decided not to give that poster the satisfaction. Let the mod deal with it. I have better things to do.
Typically, we enjoy discourse on an intellectual level. We don’t sink to petty insults and hissy fits and tantrums when we’re disagreed with. Perhaps you should pick up on that, jeanster.
jeanster: can you copy and paste into here the relevant part of Opal’s posts where she “goaded you”, or in any way whatsoever was “rude” to you? If you do that, you may get some sympathy. Otherwise, you just come off as extremely sensitive, and a little spiteful.
Sorry, dears. I won’t have time for that. I want to apologize for anything I may have posted recently that may have rubbed you the wrong way. I’m under a great deal of stress now because my time to go into labor may be coming sooner than expected. I was not due to give birth to my firstborn until the end of this month or early March. I am very scared, and so my emotions have been going haywire lately. If I took it out on any of you here in this community, I apologize.
I didn’t want to say it before because I didn’t think it was anyone else’s business. But you deserve to know why I seem to be especially sensitive here. It’s hard for me to grow a thick skin and just let stuff roll off my back when I’m scared shitless about going into the labor for the very first time. Everyone tells me it’s going to be fine, but I’m worried about complications. You never know, right? I’ve read the books and discussed experiences of giving birth with my sister and friends who have had babies. But I’m still scared.
Plus I might not even be have my own choice of doctor attending me because he’s still on the east coast on vacation. I’ll have to settle for some doctor I don’t even know.
Anyway, I will be taking a long break from the computer while I spend this week and so on taking care of important stuff I need to deal with.
I wish you all well. Enjoy your time here in the forums. I’ll have my hubby check my e-mail for me in case there are any urgent messages. But for now I really need to focus on preparing for the arrival of my baby.
Looks like I might even have this kid before I have my baby shower which is scheduled this coming weekend. Oh, well.
Hello, Samarm. No, this is not Jeanster. I am her husband. She asked me to stop by to thank you for your kind words. She also said she’ll be sure to let you know how the delivery goes when she returns. You’re sweet. It’s nice that you care.
She didn’t say much about the group here, other than it’s made of nice people and that some of them have an interesting way of showing it. I wasn’t sure what she meant by that until I read a controversial thread she started. I’m not going to step into that thread to say anything because I believe I’d only be accused of not being able to be objective since she’s my wife.
I’ll only say this. I read the thread over twice this morning to make sure I had a clear understanding of what was happening. Here’s what I observed. It was not until after the moderator moved the thread over to the BBQ Pit when the tension between her and OpalCat started. My wife did her best to maintain a courteous and civil tone. Read it and see for yourself. It was the nonstop jabs by OpalCat (poking fun at my wife, the demeaning comments, implying that she’s ridiculous and shouldn’t be so sensitive) that she felt the need to defend herself and then resorted to having the moderator step in, rather than continue in a futile attempt to reason with OpalCat. I don’t know OpalCat, but I do know that any reasonable person would not want to be poked fun of and spoken to in the manner that OpalCat replied to my wife’s posts. Again, you may think I cannot be objective about this. So read the thread and see for yourself.
Anyway, I have to go now and finalize things at work. I’m going to take some time off to help care for our firstborn child.