Yes, mechanics will occasionally lie. That’s nothing against mechanics in general, it’s simply a statement. Pick any group, from priests to janitors, and you’ll find the occasional “bad seed”.
Now, the Evil Mechanic will typically only shoot for the mechanically unenlightened customer. Which is about 85% of drivers, in my experience.
I have worked in oil-change places before. It’s quite common to give the car a quickie check to find things like burned-out bulbs or other tidbits. I doubt they’d have “unscrewed” it a “little”, since most automotive bulbs are a bayonet-type mount. Meaning they are held in by a quarter-turn locking arrangement. And even then, the mechanic might have to take a screwdriver to the lens to GET to the bulb, or at least open the trunk and toy with the socket (often hidden under carpets and such.)
Chances are, if it was out, it was actually burned out. The other thing is, was it a good bulb the last time it was replaced? I used to buy cheapie K-Mart bulbs, but had to replace two or three a year. Now I buy GE bulbs from a quality supplier and I haven’t had a bulb pop in two years.
Diff fluid basically doesn’t go bad. The ring and pinion are soaked in heavy oil constantly. Wear is very low, and there are no added contaminants as in engine oil. (As in unburned fuels, carbonized oil, dust, etc.) Typically the only thing to watch out for in a diff is leakage at the axleshaft ends, or around the driveshaft pinion.
It’s easy to check- there’s usually a plug on the side or back. Pop it open, and the fluid level should be pretty close to the bottom of the plug hole. If it’s a little low, dribble in some 90-wt gear oil and plug it up again.
As for brake adjusters, ALL drum brakes- which would include most VW buses- have adjusters. This compensates for pad wear (disc brakes self-compensate.) Yes, in some cars one can simply look at the adjuster and see the general health of the pads.
WEAR indicators are different- these are typically little metal tabs that rub the rotor or drum, and “squeak” to let you know it’s time to replace the pads. In other words, it’s an audiable signal, not a visual. (If you could see the tab, you can see the pad itself just as easily.)
Being a hands-on kind of guy myself, I strongly recommend that people get a manual for their car, whatever the make or model, and learn to do simple maintenence themselves. It’s easy, doesn’t take long, and can save you money. It’s also an excellent way to possibly catch small problems before they become big ones.
If you have a floor jack, jackstands and an old cat-litter pan, oil changes are easy. Bulb replacements (except for some deep in the dash) are even easier. Check yer own darn fluids, especially if you have an old beater. 