Let me teach ya’all a little something. I am sick and tired of hearing that being a Nice Guy is tabu. Passive aggressive my eye! (per a post early in this thread). Just because this world is depraved of wholesome values and women WANT to date trash doesn’t make it right. You get what you deserve. If you want a lazy husband who makes you a sports widow, hangs around at the bar, and flirts with all your girlfriends, and has no vision for the future, then DO NOT COMPLAIN! Like birds of a feather, you’re all made for each other! But, DO NOT mock the future-husband who KNOWS where he’s going in life, understands commitment, and wants a stable home to raise loving children. Sure, it’s lonely at the top of the food chain. But, considering the alternative, I will not yield to become some bar fly or couch potato. Life is too short, and somewhere along the line we’ve forgotten we’re supposed to be ABOVE the animals. So unplug yourself from your soaps and (so-called) reality TV, dump the liquor, and start living up to the obligations of being a member of the so-called HUMAN RACE!! On this note, it’s no more Mr Nice Guy from me! I’ve had it with what people have lowered themselves to becoming. So, wake up people! …and trash all those trashy Cosmo magazines that show you something you’ll life will NEVER be! It’s time to stand for something wholesome, damn it!!!