I divide “tech” into different categories, with vastly different approaches to adopting the latest.
E.g., as a serious computer geek, I do not upgrade the core hardware & software that I use very often. I am usually at least 2 years behind “the cutting edge.” This puzzles less knowledgable people but it’s really quite simple: I can do more on an old system than most people can do on a new system because I do things right. I tweak the hardware, keep the disk tidy, don’t allow any unnecessary startup crap, etc.
So, I have something in common with the OP.
But when A Revolution hits, I sometimes jump onboard ahead of many others. E.g., when I first had access to a CD-writer (a 2x Kodak box larger than a scanner), I was hooked. Never gone without one since. I used it only for data but was aware that it could write music CDs. I thought “uh-oh, this is going to be big trouble for the music industry.” All years before most people heard of CD writers let alone Napster and all that.
OTOH, I never owned a fax machine, never installed software for a fax-modem, etc. I’ve been using email since the 1970s and saw the fax boom c1990 as a dead tech’s last hurrah.
Took a long time to adopt CDs due to preference for analog sound.
Only got a DVD player relatively late but it was a gift. I don’t rent or buy videos. So it sat unconnected for a month since I had no use for it. I only found it useful once I discovered the joy of VCDs and SVCDs. (I now burn DVDs some too but the authoring is a huge pain.)
One problem I have with some rapidly evolving consumer tech is the price issue. Why buy something that’s going to cost half as much next year and that will do more? HDTVs will quickly drop in price once the FCC digital-tv ruling goes into effect. (Even though officially one has nothing to do with the other.)
I have fairly high standards as to functionality and bangs/buck. So I have stayed out of the PVR game for now. It is not to the level I want yet. (TIVO totally screwed up the market for PVRs. One big exec for a major Japanese gave me a personal rundown on how mad the other companies were at TIVOs marketing mistake. Essentially, you don’t want to compete in a market where the major player’s business model is to lose a lot of money indefinitely.)
I also see certain things as being touted forever but never going to make it. E.g., Bluetooth. If there was something to it, it would have taken off by now. It also turns out to be astounding insecure and the ideal medium for spamming. 802.11* has beaten it by more than a country mile. True, an inferior system, but it hit the sweet spot of the adoption curve so early it doesn’t matter.
So there’s a lot of things like Bluetooth that I have always avoided.
(Now, if we could just get the American consumer to go with Blu-Ray rather than HD-DVD.)