Do you get along with animals?

Saturday my friend and I went to her niece’s house. There was a dove (Cooey) in a cage, and I did my best impression of a dove cooing. Cooey made sort of a laughing sound and we had a little conversation. One of the nieces said that Cooey likes me, and that she never takes to people that way; especially men. Cooey even perched on my finger.

My friend once had a cat that was very standoffish. She came up into my lap and let me pet her. Her current cat likes me.

Generally I get along with animals. Sure there are a few dogs that bark at me, but I think they probably bark at everyone.

How do you and animals get along?

Dogs like me. So do most cats, and the parrots belonging to a gal I used to date. Never had a chance to interact much with my cousin’s pet rats, but they would walk around inside his shirt and, I imagine, mine too.

Pretty much. I figure most of the (few) dogs that don’t like me probably aren’t well-socialized to begin with. Cats love me. I’ve not been exposed to a lot of parrots other than my own, so I don’t know, there. My SIL’s horses love me.

Yeah, I’ve had similar experiences as you describe in your OP. The girls who lived in the apartment below me and my roommates in college had a psychotic cat that would bite and scratch anyone who picked him up or pet him, including the girls. Except me. I could hold him in my lap and pet him while we watched TV and he would be fine. I’ve often had peoples’ shy pets take a liking to me, to the surprise of the owners.
I get along great with most dogs, and horses, too. I think it’s because I’m a very calm person. I don’t project nervousness, fear, or aggression.

Dogs and cats love me. It may be that I frequently smell like bacon…

I grew up in the country with many dogs, some big and scary to other people, but I loved them and I am calm around dogs and they seem to pick up on that. They are pack animals and respond to subtle cues. I have known dogs that liked me better than their own owner right off the bat. I actually like cats but they are not dogs so I only take a casual interest in some of them.

I have a very healthy respect for horses because they are herd animals and just not that bright in a dog kind of way. I grew up with them and have ridden casually all my life but I got thrown badly by my SIL’s horse who turned into a runaway about 12 years ago at full, uncontrollable gallop, across an open field race jockey style. I will still ride one but they make me a little skittish to this day and horses can easily pick up on that.

I have never been fully comfortable around snakes but my mother adopted some big ones when I was a teenager to help her to break a phobia of them that was giving her nightmares. Her phobia was easily broken but the damned things always got out and it would take days or weeks to find them in the house. There is is nothing like finding a 6 foot rat snake at the top of a closet when you are home alone and know that you have to catch it and return it back to its cage. My 6 year old daughter LOVES snakes and there are a ready supply of them around here in the summer. I have to catch them for her so she can play with them for the afternoon. I raised an iguana from a tiny little thing to a 4 foot dragon monster before he escaped into the yard never to return.

I think I get along with them pretty well, especially dogs.

Animals love me. I haven’t seen one yet that didn’t. When I was sixteen a got a house finch to step on my finger from a tree by a car I was working on. It stood there for 10 minutes yapping at me and didn’t fly away when I tried to sush it. I’ve fed squirrels and chipmunks from my hand in the wild. You could say they were human tame, but I’d like to think they knew I meant them no harm. Never met a mountain lion face to face, but I’ve seen a couple within 20 30 feet or so. It scared the shit out of me so no doubt my fear made them wary. Fuck. Can you imagine feeding a mountain lion from your hand? I’d shit myself. What the hell. I got two hands. I’ve seen coyotes up close but they were more scared of me than I was of them.

Yeah. This is gonna sound like bragging, sorry.

My wife says I have a way with them.

Examples:

Last Thanksgiving some friends brought their ill-behaved Shih Tzu / Poodle cross, Toby (affectionately described as a “Shiht-Poo”) to a group get-together at which several other folks brought dogs. Toby wanted to challenge the other dogs and was generally barky and aggressive. I sat out on the porch with him, loosely holding his leash, and over the course of 10 minutes or so, I shorted the leash every time he moved toward me, until he was sitting at my side and couldn’t move away. I then massaged him all over and spoke to him. He was fine with the other dogs after that and spent the rest of the evening quietly sitting with various people. :slight_smile:

Then there’s the time I witched a mouse into holding still in the middle of the kitchen floor while I lowered a plastic container over him.

As a child I kept a deer mouse our cats had caught. He never bit me even though he was a completely wild animal.

This summer a Beagle/Bassett mix ran in front of our car on the interstate and my wife alertly applied the brakes just in time; I leaped out and ran him off the road, then circled around and cut off his escape route, and he sat down and waited for me to walk over to him. We were already running late on that trip because we’d stopped previously and picked up a large snapping turtle in the middle of the highway who’d been winged by a car. He bled into a cardboard box while I held him as still as I could and we drove to our exotic vet. He lived. :slight_smile:

Last night our grieving male budgie, whose mate died quite recently, was fussing and refusing to step up or go into his cage; I approached him, addressed him calmly, stepped him up and slipped him right into his cage.

In March 2007, I dedicated myself to training and socializing the little wild stray pit bull puppy our nephew found starving on the street. She was toothy, interacting with her bite, totally unhousebroken, and did not respond to petting or food rewards. I think she’d been raised in isolation, since she did not understand other dogs.

She’s now my shadow and best little girl. Hasn’t had an accident in the house since the first month she was here. Her bite inhibition is so strong that when she plays tug of war and comes close to contacting my hand she abruptly stops and sits down with a little thump, staring wide-eyed. She’s graduated intermediate manners class and will go to agility for fun soon (finances willing). She invites every dog she meets to play, and she presses her head into the hand of any human who will stop to greet her. All this was done using strictly positive methods…and the sterling quality of the animal herself, of course.

Apologies if this sounded egotistical. I would say I get along with animals.

Yes, most animals seem to like me. But then, I like them right back. If I weren’t so bad about keeping me, I’d probably get a few.

Animals tend to love me, and I’ve never once met a dog that didn’t take to me pretty much immediately.

A friend had a territorial mastiff mix, Max, that was highly reluctant to let anyone come into his house. I hadn’t met Max yet but I had to swing by my friend’s place while he was still at work. He had left the dog in the back bedroom so I wouldn’t get eaten. Max apparently hadn’t told my friend that he knew how to work doors.

I found the spare key and let myself in. As I shut the door behind me I heard a growling freight train come running out of the bedroom.

I stood calmly and confidently and when he rounded the corner I put my hand out, said, “No, Max! Sit,” in a commanding but not yelling tone. He stopped and growled. I took a small step forward and said, “Max, sit!” He stood there looking like he could go either way. I took another small step. He backed up a step. We repeated this for a few steps. I repeated the command and he sat. I gave him a good boy, advanced another couple of steps and, when he relaxed again put a couple of fingers at the back of his jaw. He nuzzled my hand and we were instant friends.

When my buddy got home I was sitting on the couch watching TV with Max curled up snoring by my feet. He couldn’t believe it. It had taken him a week or so of having to convince the dog that it was okay for him to come into the house when he first got him.

Birds and socially phobic cats seem to like me, but I think that’s more from having experience with both than anything innate.

They like me, most of the time. I respect their boundaries and don’t actually care if they like me or not, which they seem to appreciate. I like animals, but have better things to do than patronize them.

Dogs love me, I have 7 so maybe I smell doggy all the time.

But cats adore me, I have had several feral alley cats come up to me on the streets of DC, when someone else comes over they invariably snarl and leave. uh, the cat that is.

I was in Key West at the Hemingway house. The guide said they had 90- 6 toed cats and your welcome to pet any one but there was one that never went near people. Then she noticed it was in my lap and I was petting it.