Are you significantly richer or poorer than your parents, siblings, aunts/uncles, and cousins?
Is there someone else in your family who is the financial outlier?
How do mixed income levels complicate family matters? Or do they?
I have it somewhat in my family, but I haven’t given it much thought until now. My twin and I are “professionals” and make a good living for ourselves (it helps that neither of us have children, though). Our older brother and sister work in the blue-collar jobs (truck driver and baggage handler, respectively) and they are also doing okay. However, my brother’s ex-wife comes from a well-heeled family and she is also a “professional”, so his children enjoy an upper middle-class upbringing that screams “bougie” compared to how my family came up. Very nice house, fancy private schooling, preppy clothing, etc. Their cousins–my sister’s kids–are much more “regular” middle-class. I don’t think the kids are aware enough to have insecurities or weird feelings about it. But I know my sister is troubled by the fact that our ex-sister-in-law is always weird about letting her kids hang out with their aunt and cousins. I’m sure ex-s-i-l has her reasons, but my sister thinks it’s nothing but snootiness. If the class difference didn’t exist between them, I’m sure my sister wouldn’t feel this way.