Do you stay in touch with the person you lost your virginity to?

No, can’t even bring up her face. Of course it’s been almost 40 years.

toadspittle wrote:

Cheer up little buckaroo, I’m sure it was nothing you did wrong.

Though on a similar note the young lady who gave me my first bare tit (age 13) later grew up to be our class lesbian.

Yup… I’m married to him :slight_smile:

No. And frankly I hope she’s no longer among the living.

I was 15 she was 25. Long painful story.

ps, this better not double post.

Yep. I married her.

Yah, he and I used to go check out guys at the mall. He is not into ladies anymore. shrug But he comes by now and again. House sits when we are on vacation… gave me a new TV this summer…

Sure thing - I married him.

Sure thing - I married him.

No, and I would be perfectly happy if I never saw him again.

No, and I’m glad. She was a dreadful, unpleasant person, and probably still is. Ugh.

Depends on your definition:

I don’t still see the guy I lost my virginity to.

The woman I lost opposite sex virginity (the guy was first) to I am still best friends with.

Nope, although she did recently try to get in touch with me. She only got as far as my brother.

Nope. Hope he’s bald and fat, the ahem unsavory trouser snake…
Was in High School at the time…he was a very fine physical specimen, nineteen.
Found out years later that he tried to bed my mother.

PUKE. Just. PUKE.

My wife, I think I’ll keep her.

No, but I was inspired by this question to look her up. Found her on Google pretty easily, living about 500 miles away, and married, as I knew, to the guy she went back to after me. I’ll give her a call…sometime? She was nice.

No. Mrs. Lagomorph isn’t comfortable with me being in touch with any of my exes, but it’s fair because she isn’t in touch with any of hers.

My Ms. First Time is an avowed lesbian now, apparently. Back then she was Bi. She was an aspiring writer and she now owns an Internet book publishing concern and has some fame in the field of lesbian-oriented fiction. I haven’t talked to her in about 10 years, I just looked her up on Google.

Yes. I talk to her on MSN Messenger every week or so.

Yep, and I even drove 2500 miles in 3 days to go to his wedding. I like his wife, too. (Luckily it’s muutal.) I just got e-mail from them today, and he is one of the short list of people I can talk to about absolutely anything.

Yep. We stayed really close friends afterwards and still keep in touch regularly even though we’re on opposite ends of the earth. Mrs. Sub has no problem with this since I’m very open with her about it, although some of the postcards the ex sends have raised an eyebrow or two (she’s very opening and inviting spirit, sexually, and frequently sends us postcards with her artwork on them. I wonder if some of them haven’t been intercepted by the postal authorities, either because they violated some rule, or because one of them wanted to take them home to enjoy privately).

Yep, I’m still married to him. I was almost 18 and he was 17 and a half (think Paradise by the Dashboard Light) and we got married about a year and a half later.

Now, where’s my Meatloaf CD?

I try not to. He e-mails me every few years, apparently because he’s overcome with guilt at the way our relationship subsequently went and wants to “explain.” Let it suffice to say that I do not want to hear.