I’m not looking for salacious content, no sexy time stories. Just this simple question: Where’s the person you lost your virginity with now (if’n you know)?
The woman I lost mine with is living in AZ, married with a kid. We’re not Facebook friends, but enough of my Facebook friends are friends with her, so I’ve clicked to see how she’s doing. I’m happy for her, but also very, very happy not to be with her.
She’s living in Utah, apparently fairly happily married to husband #4. I hadn’t spoken with her for well over a decade, but then we got back in touch on Facebook a couple of years ago, though we really haven’t spoken much on FB, either.
We dated after she divorced husband #2; at the time, I was 18, and she was 32. Yeah, not my wisest moment, but it seemed like a reasonable thing to do at the time.
She’s outside of Baltimore. We reconnected briefly through social media a few years ago. Still friends on Facebook but she doesn’t post much. I haven’t seen her in person in 30 years.
I’ll be sleeping next to him in a few. His body is always so WARM, and I’m freezing half the time, so I getascloseasthis. He even lets me put my cold toes under him so they can thaw out.
He’s a professor of anthropology at a university in the southwest, married for decades to a woman who seems pretty cool, with three grown kids doing interesting things. He seems like a nice guy.
He looked me up a few years ago, we had a few friendly emails and I think he would have welcomed more conversation, but I didn’t have the energy for it. I’m happy he turned out well.
Married to a lovely girl who also went to high school with us, has three beautiful children, still lives in our hometown. I’m friends with his wife on social media, and we all caught up for dinner about two years ago when another old high school friend was in town.