My roomate and I threw a big costume party last weekend and she and her new boyfriend came as June and Ward Cleaver ( Leave it to Beaver). Except he came as June in a Pretty dress and high heels. They talked about doing it but I really didn’t think they would go through with it.
Right before the party he is walking around in a pretty white slip and I can tell he is wearing one of my roomates satiny lingerie sets underneath.
I mean it is none of my business but I don’t think I could talk any normal guy into wearing panties and a bra. Plus he seemed to handel the high heels pretty well!
On a wacky dare, Mr. Beckwall wore a pair of my panties (plus his regular clothes, of course) to a parent-teacher conference for Kid Beckwall. Maybe not the same level as what you have described, but I felt like sharing .
My ex and I cross dressed for a halloween party, and I didn’t wear her undies-I had to go buy a set of pantyhose that fit my butt, instead. I did borrow a bra from her Mom, and both ladies helped fill out my matronly proportions. How women walk in heels is beyond me.
I think I’ve managed to avoid most of the TMI threads, but I doubt there could be serious ramifications from this revelation. My randy little wench of a college girlfriend occasionally asked me to wear a pair of her panties as underwear for the day. I’m not sure I could accurately articulate what it meant to her, but I really don’t think it had anything to do with cross dressing. More of an intimacy, and possibly exertion of influence thing, I think.
Anyway, getting home that night was always fun.
Left to my own devices, I shop in the Men’s Department.
Transvestism, while not the norm, is perfectly normal. Furthermore, this was a costume. It is not necessarily reflective of how this gentleman would under regular circumstances dress. Perhaps you should ask yourself why you’re dwelling on this.
In the early days of dating my girlfriend, I ended up staying over without having planned it, and had no undies on hand to wear the next morning, so I borrowed a pair of hers. Didn’t think of it again one way or the other until taking them off at night.
I guess some folks get a kick out of it, but I assume it’s the concept, not the sensation. Doesn’t feel a bit different. Well, I guess if I were a guy who wore boxers and my girlfriend were a gal who used thongs it would feel different, but we’re both bikini-briefs people.
I get the feeling that by normal she means heterosexual. And you’re right, of course. There is no difference in the ratio between homosexuals and heterosexuals among transvestites and in the population at large. Cite: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/menshealth/feature/transvesticsm.htm
Truer words were never spoken. You’d be surprised how many average guys are “abnormal” as you call them. Different strokes for different folks. What turns you on doesn’t necessarily turn the next person on, and vicey versa.
There seems to be some debate about the meaning of “normal.”
I don’t think the OP describes “normal” behavior, in the absolute mathematical sense of the word. In the same way, being a fan of “Angel” and “Buffy” is not normal. (If it were, I think it safe to say that Angel would have enjoyed phenom ratings and still be on the air).
But - unfortunately - there is a tendency to ascribe a certain perjorative aspect to behavior that is “not normal.”
For this reason, “normal” is not a very useful descriptive word in this case.
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Though I don’t remember if a bra was actually used to contain Qadgop’s balloons, or if tape was sufficient.