There is a small chance that the dead person has become a preta and is unable to rise to the higher realms. If his/her dislike/affection/love/anger for you was particularly intense, it is possible that the will of such a preta could harm you in physical/psychological/psychic ways. Yes, even the intense affection of a person who has now died (especially one who died suddenly/violently) can become a sort of hate and rebound negatively on you. That is why it is of particular importance (in Hindu traditions) to perform the funeral rites with great care and technical correctness. If a funeral was conducted, with the correct rites prevalent in your tradition, there is little opportunity for a preta to bother you, or even to form in the first place.
Though, we do not retain the ashes of a dead person in the house. As part of the final rites, they are immersed in a river. I do not believe that the ashes are a source of trouble; it may be the nature of the person and the nature of the death itself. Or, as many posters have said, it may be purely psychosomatic.
Drive out into the country and take a shovel. At leest 50 miles from home. Dig a pit at least a foot deep and drop them in there.
Go home and be thankful that’s the last you’ll ever see of that ash hole.
Your worrying could be what making you feel sick , if your heath issues do get worse it wouldn’t harm to see a doctor to rule out any health issues that happened to show at the same time the ashes arrived . LOL! I love #26 post !
You know the Op has asked a serious question and has asked us for help.
Snarky posts to show off that you are the most sceptical poster on the boards arent really helping.
Look, even if gosts do not exist the word “Haunt” has no less than two other meanings that apply. “be persistently and disturbingly present in (something).
“cities haunted by the shadow of cholera”
be persistently in the mind of (someone).
“the sight haunted me for years””
I am not supporting “woo” and if you actually bother to READ you’d see that:
Look, even if ghosts do not exist the word “Haunt” has no less than two other meanings that apply.
"be persistently and disturbingly present in (something).
“cities haunted by the shadow of cholera”
be persistently in the mind of (someone).
“the sight haunted me for years”"
“Ghosts are very likely not real. But the emotional issues involved could make a “haunting” real enough in its own way.”