I usually make it a point to eat lunch with my staff everyday - we all go into the lounge [which happens to be our greenhouse] and eat…just about every day. I enjoy it because it allows us to all be in the same room - to let our day take a calming turn and gives us the opportunity to unplug for awhile. I rarely eat alone in my office.
I am in technical assembly and the vast majority of my coworkers speak Vietnamese. I mean they do speak English as well but when they are together in a group it can get pretty loud. I usually eat lunch alone in my car.
I guess that seems sad but I don’t mind it. Plus it is pretty much the only place one can smoke around here.
I once had a boss who had an expectation that I would eat lunch with her everyday. If I did not, she was heartily offended, to the point that if I did want to each lunch elsewhere I had to come up with a very good reason. It was not a good situation.
I prefer to eat with a group usually, but I prefer peers to bosses and employees.
Alone! One and sometimes two times a week I have a working lunch, but if it is literally just eating lunch, I prefer to be alone. It is my time to collect my thoughts and unwind.
My typical work day is a lot of group work with my colleagues, though. Maybe if I didn’t see them often, it would seem more enjoyable to relax with them over lunch … but I’ve just spent a lot of time with them in the morning, and will most likely be spending more time in their company in the afternoon.
I usually eat alone. I don’t mind having lunch with co-workers, but I’m already spending the day with them in a noisy store. For lunch I like to mellow out in my quiet car with a book. It helps me relax and get my thoughts together for the rest of my shift. Plus it gives me a chance to get some fresh air; it’s my first job that keeps me inside all day and I’m not used to not being outdoors for work.
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I once had a boss who had an expectation that I would eat lunch with her everyday. If I did not, she was heartily offended, to the point that if I did want to each lunch elsewhere I had to come up with a very good reason. It was not a good situation.
I prefer to eat with a group usually, but I prefer peers to bosses and employees.
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I agree, and for some of the new people here eating with everyone [including myself] was a bit much - granted we work for a non-profit environmental group so we’re all a bunch of tree-hugg’in dirt-worshippers so things tend to stay a little layed back around here. I happen to be the E.D. but we are all working for the same cause.
I never have a probelm if people want to eat alone, I just thing that right no we have a great cohesive group and we all get along quite nicely. There are times in the spring and summer where we’ll all eat outside…very nice indeed.
Exceptions are made for office parties or when everyone gets takeout.
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This is me almost exactly. I have one coworker with whom I had lunch almost every day, but she’s been on maternity leave for the last four months, and I actually enjoy my quiet time. I prefer to be sitting in front of my computer and browsing while I eat.
I usually eat with my coworkers if someone went out and got all of us lunch, though.
I go home and eat with my husband. Before that, I’d eat alone in the car and read.
As an adult, I don’t mind it, but remember how it was in school? There were several years I didn’t eat lunch because I couldn’t face sitting alone in the cafeteria.
Ever since I moved to my current job, I’ve gotten into the nasty habit of just working right through lunch and eating at my desk… if there’s no work to do, then I end up surfing around the internet for an hour instead and then get back to work. The only time I seem to eat lunch with anyone anymore is when someone orders food because a meeting is running late and we’re all hungry.
Once the weather warms up, I do believe I’ll start forcing myself to take a walk at lunch, because this is a very very unhealthy habit.
I prefer to eat alone. Engaging in conversation with others just slows me down and my food gets cold on me if there’s too much chatter. That said, I don’t mind if a co-worker I am acquainted with joins me, but I don’t seek out to sit with others in the break room.
If I could eat at my desk I would, but since I have to use the microwaves in the break room I figure I might as well eat my lunch there.
I eat with my husband most days; he works at the same place I do. He’s off at a training this week and I miss it desperately! How did I face those lonely husbandless lunches all those years?
Sometimes I eat with other friends at work in the breakroom; there’s usually a lively bunch down there.
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I go home and eat with my husband. Before that, I’d eat alone in the car and read.
As an adult, I don’t mind it, but remember how it was in school? There were several years I didn’t eat lunch because I couldn’t face sitting alone in the cafeteria.
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I’ve read your posts. I’ve seen your pictures. I’d eat lunch with you any day!
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I usually make it a point to eat lunch with my staff everyday
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I do that as well. The business buys each Friday, and on the other days people often bring leftovers/etc. However, nothing is really planned out, so it can be feast or famine.
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Well, I’m alone in person but I eat lunch with you guys most days, so I’m virtually not alone.
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Ya beat me to it.
I do occasionally go to lunch with a group, but we’re talking…maybe once a month? Sometimes I’ll use my lunch-break to run errands, though. It’s what I meant to do today and didn’t manage.
At this job I eat alone, with my crossword puzzle. I will occassionally talk to others, but I have no desire to be friends with these people. I’ve been friends with cow-orkers before and it brought me nothing but trouble.