So, Mom_Crayons is taking a poll about whether or not she should fix this hole in her heart. Doctors are happy either way.
The background:
There is a congenital defect that occasionally occurs. As a foetus develops, there’s a tubes going into the heart. Foetues gets a bit more developed, the tube pops out, hole closes shut, and baby is born with a good little ticker. Sometimes babies are born whose hearts haven’t sealed the hole – no biggy, baby gets a quick fix. All is well.
Somehow, Mom_Crayons went through her entire life without anyone noticing she had this big, honkin’ hole in heart. She was captain of her highschool basketball team (all 5’2" of her snort!) and did lots of track and field. She’s been a fairly active lady, though not so athletically inclined as an adult.
Once upon a time, someone noticed a heart murmur, but a few years later she seemed to have “grown out of it.” Then a couple of years ago, during a routine physical the doc said “Hey, your heart murmur is back! Hm. It’s awfully loud…”
So lo’ – now approaching 70 they’ve discovered that all this time she’s had that great big hole in her heart.
Three doctors and the specialist have all said the same thing:
“Well, if you were 30, I’d recommend fixing it because it might kill you at 50. But since you’re almost 70 and have never had even the slightest problem… Well, heck it’s up to you! If you want to fix it, we’ll fix it. If you want to leave well enough alone, that’s cool too.”
So now she’s not sure. Women in our family live until 95 easy (she does not want to live that long, she says). The docs have said “well, it could take about five years off your life or so…” which means she’ll drop off the perch at 85-90? She’s not really worried.
So what does everyone think:
Fix it? (It’s not a very invasive procedure.) or
Leave well enough alone.
Doctors are happy with either, and mom is equally ambivalent and can’t make up her mind.
WWDD? (What Would Dopers Do?)