This may sound rude, or offensive but im going to be blunt in asking for opinions.
My sexuality means that it’s pretty certain that I won’t be able to have children the old fashioned way with the person I fall in love with.
This has only really dawned on me recently.
So if i wanted a child it seems adoption would be the best route.
This brings with it a whole bunch of problems, but one would be me worrying about having an attachment to the child.
Is there some instant and special connection to a genetic child that just doesn’t exist with an adopted child?
Is that the biggest emotional hurdle to get over?
This obviously won’t be coming up any time soon due to my age, but it has just had me thinking the past few days.