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I’ve pretty much spent my life presuming that discipline is a synonym for “punishment”. If I’m wrong, I’d like to know where.
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This line kind of jumped out at me.
To me, discipline is one of the highest virtues. Remember that “discipline” come from “disciple.”
Discipline is how you accomplish goals. It’s how you turn yourself into what you want to be.
I became a disciple of running when I was a 240 pound smoker who would get out breath going up a flight of stairs. I applied discipline and hope to complete a 100 miler in May.
I think I first really “got” the concept of discipline when I took a riflery course as a child, and we got indoctrinated with the NRA Gun Safety Rules. They are simply a set of carefully thought out rules, and if you follow them 100% all the time it is impossible to accidently shoot somebody. It’s a good set of rules. In order for these rules to be worthwhile though you have to learn them and practice them and follow them religiously all the time. They have to become automatic and second nature, but yet you constantly need to keep reaffirming then.
In short, they take discipline.
I was so impressed I started making up other rules that I’m anal about following. For example, my keys always go in the same places. I never put them anywhere but in one of those places. Because I acquired this discipline, I don’t lose my keys. Same for the wallet. I have another for the credit card. If I take my credit card out to pay for something, I keep the wallet in my hand until the credit card is returned. That way I never walk out of a restaurant or leave a store and leave my credit card behind.
If you want to do anything truly extraordinary… or even just anything just well, you need discipline. I’ll bet you are a disciplined driver. You have to be to drive a ton of metal at 60 mph, and everybody else around you has to be disciplined.
You don’t drive into oncoming traffic, do you? The rules of the road are a discipline.
Disclipine isn’t punishment, it’s the means to competance.