Our penchant for racial labeling, even when well-intentioned, is in and of itself a bias. This might be a new concept for many people to grasp, because for years America’s race-based diversity programs have relied upon labeling.
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We lump people into racial categories as though all the people in a certain race group are the same and, thus, different from those in another group—creating an us vs. them mentality. My global upbringing has taught me differently: Across all our differences, we connect on human commonalities that transcend race and skin color.
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Describing a person by their race or origin is not an issue. I can be described as an “Asian and originally from South Korea who went to school in Charlottesville, Virginia, and is married with two grown children, etc.” However, when I am defined and put into a bucket labeled Asian American or minority, my individuality is erased.
I personally see much validity in Ms. Peers’ comments. I relate to people on an individual level. And in my short life, so far, most (not all) people that I meet, interact with, etc. are good people. Not perfect people, but good people, with good intentions. I have enormous faith in mankind, even though we are not perfect. I have had the privilege to travel around the world and meet people of all different ethnicities, socio-economic backgrounds, educational backgrounds, etc., and my observations hold true. And the one thing that is common everywhere I’ve been, is children. Children all around the world when at play, giggle, laugh, smile. They truly don’t see color or differences.
But it is human nature as we get older to categorize people by their differences, and I highly doubt that behavior can ever be stopped. Yes, we can shame or prosecute those that exhibit racism, but do we continue to do harm by doing societal labeling?
I understand and support the Black Lives Matter movement. And I also understand the frustration by those that on first reaction say that all lives matter. From a PR perspective one of the best things the BLM movement did was begin the campaign that says, “For all lives to matter, black lives have to matter”.
I have always felt that racism takes generations to change, as it is (IMHO) a learned behavior. I don’t know if it will happen in my lifetime, but maybe my children or my grandchildren will live in a world where all people are respected for who they are as individuals.
Martin Luther King Jr. may have put it best when he said, “I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.”