I recently engaged in a conversation with someone who believed that a real orgasm following intercourse increases your chances of conceiving a boy. A quick google search yields a book by Dr. Landrum B. Shettles, “How to Choose the Sex of Your Baby”, parts of which are on this website (http://www.childbirth.org/articles/sex.html). I have a bachelors in physiology, and I don’t remember falling asleep in the “how babies are made” class, but I cannot find any shred of real scientific evidence that would support such a ludicrous statement.
Anyone has specific references to prove/disprove this?
IANADoctor but I cannot imagine how an orgasm (or lack of one) could alter the chances of a given sex being selected for. I have heard that an orgasm (for the woman of course…goes without saying for the male) will increase the chances of conception occurring but that is about it. Unless “girl” sperm are better swimmers than “boy” sperm such that lacking an orgasm the “girl” sperm has a better chance of reaching its destination absent a female orgasm I cannot see how this would work.
I cannot find anything saying there is a marked difference in behavior between sperm with an x chromosome and sperm with a y chromosome. If any of Shettles theories were true, we would have a marked difference in the ratio of men to women. I suppose it’s just dumb luck that if you do X you get a boy but if you do X without doing Y and Z first you get a girl, so it all magically balances out to 50:50 if you’re not using his methods.
Sex is a great area for misinformation, rumor, and urban legends because it is often private and a taboo subject.
The source of your friend’s idea is this, then, I’m guessing?
I suppose you could disprove this yourself. All you need is litmus paper and a woman willing to undergo a few orgasms.
I am under the impression that the only chemicals released during orgasm are in the brain - anything chemical that goes on in the vagina is probably the same pre-orgasm and post-orgasm, as long as both are post-arousal. AFAIK The orgasm is only a muscular reaction down south.
Weird. I generally prefer them during intercourse. But different strokes for different folks.
What takes place following intercourse is conception. That takes place hours later, from a few hours to several.
Presumably you’re talking about female orgasm. (Because, as JoeyP stated, without male ejaculation (which is usually accompanied by orgasm), there will be no pregnancy at all.) I don’t see how an orgasm that happened or didn’t happen hours previously could effect conception. And I’ve never seen any scientific research to indicate this.
One possible test: babies conceived via artificial insemination with frozen sperm. (A friend described this process to me, and she clearly did not have an orgasm during it. I’d presume that is fairly typical.) So does the gender of AI babies show any statistical trend different than the standard?