Does this count as cheating on my spouse?

[Napier]

@Voyager

If your soon to be ex-wife had been seeing someone else, would you have thought that she was cheating? I doubt it. So I suspect you were consistent in your definition.
Cheating is when you violate the rules. When I played solitaire with real cards I had a rule that if you had fewer than 10 cards you could select any. Under my rules, doing that wasn’t cheating. Your rules changed also.
Not guilty!

See, Boyo? THAT’s how it’s done!!