Your name always makes me think of this anime character.
As for me, any-one can be a nobody, but I’m male.
A long time ago in the age of BBSs I liked the name of the Christian rock band Petra, so I used that for a handle. But not for long as people kept thinking I was female. I guess it was because Petra ends in an a.
I’m not really not a girl. Also, not especially feminine, but it was the other meaning I was trying for. Well technically, I’m not a ‘girl’ any more either, as I’m an adult of the female type.