My mother called me today, after heehawing around a bit she asked if I would concider getting tested to see if I could give her a kidney, if it came to that point.
ok now here is my problem…
My mother is a hyprocondrac (sp??) she actually “shoped” dr.s a few years ago to find one that would give her the historectmie (sp??) she felt she needed she actually says “I went to over 20 quacks before I found a dr. that agreed i need it done” Ok if more than drs say I don’t need it i will tend to agree but over 20??? And a few things she told me about this sound fishie.?.?
My mom and I have a very strained relashinship, infact she didn’t even have me most of my life my grandparents did, the courts took me away from her because she was so abusive.
My mom has been known to do test to see how much people (both friends and family) “love” her
I have been having problems with kidney infections in my right kidney for the last 6-8 months, I own a hair salon that requries I am there everyday, I am suddlenly raising my hubbys niece (we have no kids of our own) and hubby is a over the road truckdriver gone for weeks at a time.
BUT she is my mother and inspite of everything else I feel its my duty as her only child
ANY ADVICE WOULD BE WELCOME, expecally since my hubby is gone right now and not due to call till Wed.