My problem… I drive a 5 speed Saturn. I sometimes don’t hit the gear fully, and get a little grindage. I think this is mostly rushing the clutch release - getting too cocky on shifting and not making sure the shifter is fully in position, plus my shifter has had some problems and sometimes doesn’t want to go. I had it checked out and it was problems in the shifter, not the tranny, and I had part of the cables replaced, but I think some others are a little loose or stretched or whatever.
I learned on a ‘57 Chevy pickup truck - 3 speed column shift, old beater. This thing had power steering - arm power steering. Just crank away and you eventually start turning. This one in particular had a accident that busted one of the control rods in the column and it was never repaired right - dad did it himself. It had about 70 deg of free play in the steering wheel. No foolin’.
Anyway, when learning to drive, I was never taught anything about looking at rpm’s. I was taught to drive by listening to the motor, and then shifting when it “sounds right”. No real explanation for when it sounds right, just experience driving and coaching. Drove that baby for a few years.
After that I drove other people’s cars a few times. The hard part was getting comfortable with how their car behaved, when to shift, etc. Plus after a couple years driving only automatics, sometimes I’d forget to shift, which sucks when you’re braking and the car starts jerking and dies.
When I got my Saturn 6 yrs ago, again it was not a matter of knowing anything about when to shift. It was trial and error, when it seemed to sound right. I am fairly comfortable now with figuring out what gear I should be in based on feel and sound, but occasionally go one too high or one too low when shifting speeds in city driving - slow down, speed up, slow down, speed up, stop.
Anyway, I’m just curious if there’s a better way to learn than “that pitch sounds high enough, I’ll try a shift now”. Thus my question about matching rpms. I have occasionally found shifting out of 5 I hit the right rpm it comes out to neutral without the clutch, but I don’t try forcing 4th, I always use the clutch to engage. And I don’t really drive it that way, coming out of 5th without the clutch.
Oh, my car has one of those shift lights, but I have always ignored it. I was told those are basically idiot lights - if you haven’t shifted now, you really need to. I either beat the light on shifting, or else am transitioning to the lower gear for more power for things like passing and merging.