Dr. Ruth has died

I have great affection for Dr. Ruth. As I became a teenager I somehow found her radio show and listened to it covertly on a walkman at night. Her forthright manner, openness and acceptance was important for me to hear at that age. She was a wonderful lady.

She spoke honestly and openly about sexual relations publicly before everyone was doing it. I enjoyed listening to here on the radio as a teenager, and learned more from her than I ever could learn talking to friends.

I remember her, too.

Not only did her content and delivery seem inherently positive and helpful, it also put in stark contrast how Puritanical our society remains.

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She was also very funny and a frequent guest on David Letterman and Conan O’Brien’s shows:

Dr. Ruth Tackles The Tough Questions About Sex | Letterman

Ruth Westheimer on Late Night December 27, 1996

(That’s the only one I can find with Letterman and looks like her first time as a guest but IMDb.com lists 22 appearances on Late Night With David Letterman and one on The Late Show, with an additional 8 appearances on *Late Night with Conan O’Brien.)

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I met her in 1986, shortly after she became a nationally-known figure. She gave a presentation at my college, and several of my friends and I were able to get tickets to a reception afterwards. I got the chance to talk with her for some time, and she was every bit as kind and funny as she came across on her show.

She was deadly with a rifle.

According to Wikipedia, “When she was 90 years old, she demonstrated that she was still able to put together a Sten gun with her eyes closed.”

She made a better conductor for sexual enlightenment, both as an old cutie and as a link to Viennese psychology; especially when compared to opportunists like Hefner and Gurley-Brown. But of course her message fell behind along with theirs, especially after 2015 as MeToo was emerging; when she claimed that, once both parties are present and aroused, consent can’t be withdrawn. And she cited Jewish tradition for credibility.

I remember her telling the story of taking her grandchild to a carnival where there was a shooting game, and she won multiple prizes until, as I remember, the game operator asked her to go away.

Was just reading her Wiki page. Wow, what a life she had. A movie should be made about her.

There was an off-Broadway play about her life, in which she was portrayed by the woman who played Kitty Foreman on That '70s Show.

I saw her in some old episodes of Hollywood Squares recently, alongside Richard Simmons and Martin Mull. It seems a remarkable coincidence that they should all have died within days of each other.

(I wonder if Shelly Duvall was in any of those episodes too…)

Debra Jo Rupp.

I had to look; according to IMDB, no, she never appeared on Hollywood Squares.

Unless I was hallucinating, she did in the Tom Berenger iteration, around 2003–2004.

There is a biography on her at libraries, its got to be fascinating.
She will be missed.

If so, it didn’t make it into her IMDB profile.

I know; I figured more people would know the character than the actor’s name.

I think those episodes have all been archived, so I’ll go through them when I have the time.