I had a dream about the first time I would hook up with my (future) husband.
I would occasionaly have dreams about my best friend’s brother, usually every 6 months or so. I would tell my friend about them, to her horror/bewilderment. I was in a LTR at the time, and even though I did like her brother that way, I assumed nothing would ever happen and it was just a fixation.
The dream in question: I’m at a bar in Ithaca we used to frequent, as said brother was in a band with my then LTR and other friends of mine. However, instead of being a narrow hole-in-the wall, the place was large, with hardwood floors and a deck on the river with sliding glass doors running along its length. But I just knew, like you do in dreams, that it really was Bar So and So.
The band my LTR and said brother in are playing the place in my dream, and its packed with everyone we know. And me and said brother are in the center of the place, making out like our lives depended on it, in full view of everyone.
So, lets skip ahead about 3-4 years. (That dream really stuck with me.) Bar So and So has switched locations, they bought an older bar right on the river, renovated it, and call themselves the New Bar So and So. Deck on the river, sliding glass doors, the whole layout was pretty much laid out as in my dream. (It hadn’t rung any bells for me at this point though.)
I go there one night for a pretty big concert with a caravan of people. Said brother ends up there (without his sister) because he’s in the opening band that evening. I end up there (without LTR) because LTR and I are REALLY not getting along and everyone else was going.
After said concert - which was awesome - I end up in mutual friend’s RV in the parking lot hanging out with friend’s brother and a few other people. The few other people crash out, and friend’s brother and I admit years of long term attraction. Yadda yadda yadda, and we got married a year later.
The location of the dream, the band performing, and assorted other symbolism really freaked out my now-sister in law after she remembered me telling her about the dream years before. My husband just smiles smugly.