Oooh, cheeks stay together!
Well, there are some folks like my spouse who, although quite capable of standing, often choose to use the stall over the urinal because he can’t piss without a catheter and he’s found that the normal folks sometimes get freaky when watching a man thread a foot and a half of tubing through his dick.
There is also the small thing that by using a normal stall to do this (which is very possible) he leaves the handicapped stall open for those who truly need that particular facility, such as people in wheelchairs.
And, oh yes, shy kidneys and all those other reasons.
In other words - the guy might actually have a reason, and if he does, it’s none of your goddamned business. Why does it matter to you, anyway?
ETA:
Actually, that doesn’t work too well with a catheter. The sitting down part. I agree, if there’s a door it’s best to close it.
Besides, sometimes you’re wearing shoes that you can’t afford to dribble piss all over.
Your husband isn’t leaving the door open then, is he? And I am not buying that actual medical reasons are active except in a minuscule number of reasons. And it’s my business, because I need to use the fucking toilet.
Wouldn’t that be a “flush” game?
flush rage
Stand in line like everybody else.
I can’t be sure because I don’t follow him into public men’s toilets but, given his usual conduct and his desire for privacy when performing a necessary medical chore I’m going to assume so.
However - aren’t there men’s toilets where there are no doors on the stalls? I seem to recall hearing about that at some point.
Medical urination issues are a lot more common than people realize, in part because they are usually quite easy to conceal. From men with prostate troubles to post-stroke folks who might have paralysis issues to folks with spinal damage (my spouse among them) that isn’t totally disabling but does interfere with bladder control to those who have survived nasty diseases and accidents that leave them with these problems the numbers add up to quite a few people.
You can’t know just by looking at someone.
THEY need to use the “fucking toilet”, too.
Are you able-bodied? Can you actually hold your bladder and bowels for a minute (a literal minute)? Then count your blessings, there are hundreds of thousands of people in this world who would like to be able to do so as well. You can wait a goddamned minute to piss or shit or both.
And if you can’t, and you don’t suffer from one of those bladder/bowel control issues, then don’t wait so fucking long to go to the toilet.
Man, people aren’t just going to hand you a line like that every day. I believe the correct response is, “I AM the fucking stall monitor!” 
We also have a “Yellow, let it mellow” policy in our house. It doesn’t extend to public bathrooms, but it really should. It is an awful waste of water to flush gallons for every little tinkle.
Thank you! That one was too perfect, I’m glad someone noticed. 
For such a thing to happen, it would have to be quite a startling coincidence (all urinals and regular toilets being occupied for the small amount of time between when he began searching out a place to pee and when I encountered him in the stall when all the other urinals and toilets are available). Even if it only happened once, it would be mighty coincidental, much less quite frequently.
In a toilet- well, I concede if you are going to have a BM, then you might want to flush before using. But if you are just going to urinate (and this holds for a urinal) then your urine is not special and precious, it can join his.
My first guess is that they have something embarrassing going on with their dick. Who cares?
Can we use the access ramp, or do we have to wait until the stairs are full?
That’s a silly comparison and you know it. You, an able-bodied person using a ramp, doesn’t hinder the handicapped from using it in any way whatsoever.
It’s like they’re not even trying. Maybe we should give seminars.
For those who like to say “Why should I deprive myself of the luxury of using the handicap stall when I never even see a handicap person using it” or use other justifications for using the handicap stall when there are non-accessible options available for them, let me explain why you should change your behavior.
These stalls were created, and exist, in order to meet the needs of people who cannot use the standard facilities due to physical disabilities. If such people weren’t out in the world, if they didn’t exist in the first place then the larger stalls meant to meet their needs wouldn’t exist either. All the stalls would be the standard, smaller versions.
Now before it is even brought up by others, let me say that in order to make room for these larger, accessible stalls, a number of the smaller stalls had to be taken out. So less able-bodied people are able to access and use the facilities at any given time, making it more likely that someone will not have such a stall available to them when they need it. Of course, in these situations, the handicapped stall serves as the “stall of necessity” that this able-bodied person can rely on when no other regular options are available. But not before.
While a person may not see a disabled person in real life using the stalls, I guarantee you just about 100% of the disabled people who do depend on such stalls are subjected to the senseless, selfish, rude and at times truly awful tendency of people using such stalls completely unnecessarily on a regular basis; thereby leaving them waiting outside the stall as they stare desperately at the rows of unused but unreachable toilets and urinals. And these stalls that the disabled person regularly is deprived of using (in a fair and sensical fashion) are stalls that are in existence specifically to give those who cannot access the normal stalls an equal option.
Everyone must occassionally wait to use a public restroom facility, that’s just life. I’m not suggesting or wanting the handicapped stalls to be reserved just for handicapped people. Not at all. What I do want is for people to change how they regard such stalls. Don’t view them as a luxury, view them as a necessity.
Pisser’d off?
I was in one several years ago.
Yep. I’m a diabetic with a bit of prostrate trouble. I prefer to drip into a bowl rather than stand at a urinal and drip on my pants or sit on a throne and drip down my balls. I close & lock the door, though.
I use the handicrapper because it’s so luxurious.
Also, I am given to hemorrhoids (like passing a razor blade!). Invisible disabilities and all that…