Why is my dad such an Dumbass? Srsly. Heres the stuff a normal idiot would not do.
He gave away a phone that we still have payments to a friend because “He don’t have one”
Gave away a Camera that cost 500 to a relative because “we don’t use it anymore” And argued with my mum because we don’t have it when we went on a trip. and was moody nearly everyday or for a month.
Arguing, threw phone onto floor, stole mums phone, had to buy another. then dad broke that phone and he stole and used mums one. mum bought a new phone AGAIN.
Threw ipad onto floor for no absolute fucking reason. ipad survived, thanks apple.
Went away to london with my sisters, mum didn’t go, i stayed, he came back a day late, said, "we got lost, eeh so we stayed london with my mum sisters.
Wasted £700 on a bloody fricking bike that is bigger than him. didn’t listen to mum, we still had electric bill to pay, water bill to pay, ect ect.
oh wait! and also wasted £200 on bike lessons.
I’m guessing the answer is “because you dad drinks a little too much, and when he does, has poor control of his temper and poor decision-making skills.”
But what would I know about your dad? (By the way, it’s “etc.” “Et” means “and” and “c.” is for “cetera,” which means “(the) other things.”)
A lot of people feel they can show they’re prosperous by acting like a spendthrift. The impression they’re trying to make is “See? I have so much money I can afford to waste it.” It’s not always intentional behavior. It may be unconscious or even an attempt to fool themselves.
He sounds like a people person. Those can really get on peoples nerves.
He also sounds like he gets easily frustrated by technology. It’s going to be rough on him when the robots take over so give him a break while you can.
SecuriHelp, it does sound like your dad is somewhat of a dumbass, or at least in some ways. Being generous with gifts isn’t necessarily dumbass, though if you are also struggling to make ends meet, then it is.
I’m sorry you are dealing with this.
Also, welcome to the SDMB. It doesn’t sound like you are having the best time with it, but please give it a chance, it’s really nice here.
How old are you? What else is going on?
I don’t know if you are going to hand around or not, but please PM me if you feel inclined.
How long do you suppose 'til he throws the bike to the floor? Just kidding. Bike lessons?
Are we talking an old-fashioned pedal bike, or a motorcycle? I’ve never heard of lessons for a pedal bike. If it’s a motorcycle, I guess he won’t throw it to the floor. He might give it away, though. Your Dad sounds very generous.
It sounds like your dad is very childish. You may be the adult in the family. This will be very difficult for you. I suggest you get a good education,a good job and move far,far away. Sorry,but that’s my best suggestion