I think I am having a mid-life crisis at 34. Everyone is telling me I am being silly, but I do not think so.
First of all, I am considering getting rid of my car and getting a motorcycle or motor scooter. Whenever I get in my car I feel trapped and get frustrated at that being the only reasonable way to get around town. Also, I am fed up with having to pay so much for options, power, etc. that I do not want nor do not need. All I want is some basic, realiable and inexpensive transportation, but at least in the US that is too much to ask for. 
Next while I have a decent job in a city I like, I am seriously considering trying to get a job somewhere like Portland Oregon, because it is more rationally designed and is friendly to walkers, bicyclists, etc, (at least more so than Houston).
I would also like to be married, (my best friend is getting married in June)however I have not managed to find a woman for a long term relationship. The ones I am interested in are either in a relationship or are not interested in anything serious,(the lets be friends routine). And the ones who are interested in me, I am do not feel the same way, and I will not settle for someone I do not feel that way about just to get married. It is unfair to all concerned.
Finally, I am debating getting involved in an SMBD type group. :eek: (Femdom if anyone is interested). I do not feel strongly about the lifestyle either way like some people. It just seems like it might be interesting to see, because it is different from the mainstream and is kind of amusing. I have never been involved in anything like this before, but you only live once, and life is dull without trying new and different things. 
Perhaps my friends are right and I am just nuts. Maybe I just need a beer and to get laid! 
Even if nobody makes it this far it feels good to get it all out!! Thanks SDMB