Sorry for bumping up an old thread, but it took time to discover it from the other side of the Atlantic and I think I have some things to add.
I am a male who decided to divorce a few years ago. I own a realdoll, with which I mean the kind of doll, not the Realdoll brand for mine was manufactured by Ai 4Woods in Japan. The doll doesn’t look really underage, but all dolls of this kind look not aging.
I don’t show myself in public with the one have sex with. That was normal in the days that marriage was the only way to have sex. But those days are gone. My doll doesn’t carry the burden of that history and I don’t bring her out in public. That I own one matters in this post only.
What I want to tell is that I’m not interested in porn any more since I own this doll.
Before I bought her, I was interested in nude pictures of pretty women. Not interested in hardcore porn; any male part in a picture was a turnoff for me. There is a well-known website that offers a really huge collection of nude art pictures. A really huge collection means that they don’t have to mind and don’t really mind the average taste. Every taste will be met. So I found enough that met my taste, and downloaded 18 GB of pictures in a month. After a month my subscription ended. Of course I still receive a load of emails inviting me to subscribe again, but I changed my mind. Watching the pictures that I liked, I found out that I had only a computer screen to cuddle.
I knew the realdolls already, but seeing pictures of them, I couldn’t imagine that they were worth the money.
The difference was that the art pictures were images of women I couldn’t get, while the doll pictures were pictures of dolls I could get.
So I ordered a doll that looked the most like the pictures that I downloaded. My taste is oriental, so it became a Japanese doll, but that is only my taste.
I don’t regret the purchase. I didn’t throw away the 18 GB of pictures, but they are an archive to me. What disappeared was the urge to expand the collection.
I admire the perfect body of the doll like I admire the women in the pictures, and I do everything with her that I cannot do with my computer screen.
Back to the discussion. I read some statements here that I want to comment.
Similar in concept, yes. The same thing, no. Porn is addicting. One picture isn’t enough, ten pictures aren’t enough, a hundred pictures aren’t enough… and I know what I’m talking about. So porn drawings cannot keep the desire for real porn away.
It’s often asked if dolls can keep the desire for real sex away. To me, my doll does, but it doesn’t matter in my opinion. Why does nobody ask if dolls can keep the desire for porn away? That matters much more.
Most paedophiles don’t get the chance to have real sex with children, or don’t want the risk of being caught, or even don’t want to harm children. People who would behave well if there were no child porn, behave wrong as soon as they get in touch with child porn. I have a surprising example of it.
It was in an article on salon.com where this was stated, not by the author but by the interviewed person, Matt McMullen, the boss of Abyss Creations and creator of the Realdoll. He told that some would-be customers asked him to create dog-like sexdolls and child-like sexdolls, and that he refused to meet those requests. He just found them too creepy. But just stating his disgust didn’t help. In February 2012 one of his most important employees, the doll mak-up supervisor, was arrested on federal charges for possession and distribution of child pornography.
Porn is addicting, and so is child porn. And children are abused in order to produce it.
So please stop making statements and start protecting children. Give paedophiles their dolls.