One: by definition, the Moderator is not wrong. This is not a smart-ass remark, but the truth. Maybe all us full-of-ourselves posters need to remember that this thing is put up, free of charge, by the Chicago Reader, who does take a loss on the damn thing, for the purpose of promoting the Straight Dope. The community is wonderful; I’ve gotten to be friends with people I would have never met in offline life, and I thank God daily (well, almost) that Mike, Ed, and the rest of the Reader crew find this worth doing, and that Lynn, David, Tuba, and the other wandering admins and moderators are willing to volunteer their time to keep it running.
Two: MPSIMS has a very important function. The people we debate with, ask GQs to and answer GQs for, dispute Cecil’s articles with,and so on, are real human beings with other life concerns. Some of which get discussed in MPSIMS – and the most-rage-inducing of them here in the Pit. It helps to know that LlamaFucker’s been a bastard in his remarks lately, unlike his normal argumentative but placid self, because his grandfather is dying of incurable cancer. And to offer him sympathy, even if he does have some lame-ass ideas about what the Constitution means and how to interpret the Bible. Happens I was able to do a good deed lately: a fairly new poster from the same area as me lost his job at the same time as the company I work for lost the guy who did the same sort of work. Reading about his job loss, I told him to send me his resume and passed it on to the woman who manages that part of the company. He’s one of two qualified candidates for the job as things stand. And neither he nor I would have had a clue that he and the vacancy here fit if it hadn’t been for MPSIMS.
I’ve never had a post party. I never plan to. I try to make what I say useful to others, or at least witty (sometimes only half so, I’m afraid :o ). And I think that following the guidelines that the people who run this establishment set for it is, generally speaking, a good idea. If I think that a guideline is well-intentioned but gonna cause problems, I’m not afraid to say so – direct to the admin. in question, not fishing for support from others unless I have questions on whether I’ve gauged public reaction right and therefore post my disagreement in ATMB or here, as appropriate, to get my thinking confirmed or corrected.
If the servers at the Reader need easing, or simply if a volunteer Moderator needs some help doing the thankless and unpaid job he agreed to, I’ll be ready to cooperate.
May I encourage that on you and everybody else?