Ever made amends with someone you got in trouble?

I unintentionally got someone into trouble with his employer. I had no idea (really) that he would be reprimanded. Now, I feel guilty. What would be the best way to make amends?

A simple apology? A small gift?

Depends. What was the situation? Maybe they deserved to be reprimanded?

Need details!

Besides grade school trifles, not really. But I have one I’ll do now:

I just recently (because I didn’t know any better) asked someone on these boards about some help picking a file-sharing program to find some certain files.

They told me it was a no-no but then proceeded to give me the information anyway, only to get a warning from the mods! Now I realize: “So, what? It was a warning, unless they’re asking for trouble then they won’t do it again, so no harm done.”

Yeah, sure, but I still feel guilty. So…

Askia, if you’re there:

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Damn, in addition to board policies, I’m also completely ignorant of vB formatting in my posts!

I’d recommend a long, honest conversation with this person you got in trouble. Take responsibility for what you did, and it will go a long way towards salvaging the friendship.

This is a matter of opinion rather than fact, so I’ll move this thread to IMHO.

bibliophage
moderator GQ