Yeah, some forms of sacrafice… like dying to save your kids or perhaps other family members. But what about the sacrafices we make each day for total strangers? Or to society as a whole?
Actually, fuck it. I should not mention wolves or generalizations about the human condition.
Here, fools, explain this: Why does the vast majority of us possess the instinct designed to specifically hinder our chances at reproduction? Why is it that the more attractive or desirable the member of the opposite sex, the more incapable we are of going up to talk to them, much less be our usual charming selves? Nervousness undercuts us, makes us unsociable, unwitty, unpleasant to be around.
Clearly, group selection has deemed it most efficient if not only do the supermodels not want to talk to us, but if we make ourselves hideous if they ever do.
Also, this isn’t a lone example regarding sex. The exact same thing happens if we try to associate with emminent people. Ie, you weren’t popular in high school not just because those kids didn’t like the way you looked. More specifically, we can talk about the instinct of nervousness that underlies the previous situations. Nervousness is one of the fundamental emotions that were created for our self-sacrafice. For example, say you’re playing one-on-one basketball with the quarterback of the football team. Your nervousness makes you miss shots and not play well, while his relaxed demeanor lets him observe all of your moves and dribble with a light hand. You may be quite good against your dad or friends, but in this match you lose, the girls swoon around him, and the status quo is reaffirmed due just as much to your own instincts as to his or the spectators’.
Or maybe you keep your calm, win the game, and then make some jokes about his mom. Not being nervous, your manner is sociable and amicable. He laughs. A few hours later, you’re with him and the cheerleaders getting drunk. By not being nervous, you proved to them you’re a leader too.
Trivially explained, huh? Ev Psychs’ explanations are trivial, yet that doesn’t mean the questions they try to answer can be trivially explained.