Executrix for a will; questions

I was Executor for my mother’s estate in Virginia. My duties involved accounting for all assets/debts and demonstrating how they were distributed and/or settled. I also had to show I followed the Will and satisfied the named beneficiaries. I used Excel to keep a record of all financial matters supported with receipts/bills. Withing one year, I was required to submit a full accounting to Probate which was done with no issues.

One of the first things I did was set up a checking account as, “The Estate of (deceased’s name)’ transferring all monetary assets into it and this account was used for all distributions. I arranged for the sale of the home and held an Estate Sale to address the contents. As Executor, I was entitled to 5% of the entire Estate which I did not take as the Will listed myself and my brothers as beneficiaries. Prior to the Estate Sale, my brothers and I agreed on what household items we each wanted.

It was an involved process and adequate record keeping is a must. My ultimate goal was to bring all assets of the Estate down to zero prior to submitting my accounting to Probate.

Thanks for the advice. Things have progressed nicely. My gf now has a lawyer and has signed papers at the register of wills. The lawyer explained that in Pennsylvania she will get a set percentage of the estate (other than insurance policies and something else).

There was also some hilarious moments. Her aunt had a wheelchair that collapsed to fit in the car trunk. I was able to open and close it easily, but anyone else would fail miserable. She eventually said that I was the only one allowed to touch her chair. She left the wheelchair to me in her will, which had everyone laughing. I donated the chair to a food/supply pantry that she supported.

ETA: so far the only difficult people to deal with has been the cable company! We returned their stuff, and that should have been it, but they dragged their feet horribly.