Slackergirl, I hope the band works for you. I had no idea they were that expensive. Several years ago I worked in a natural foods store and one of our regular customers was once morbidly obese (335x). She had lipo and used that as a jumping off point for excercise. She excercised very hard, mainly as a weight lifter. Last I saw her she was around 150x and was getting cosmetic surgery to remove the folds of loose skin. I doubt she’ll ever be heavy again.
My wife’s parents are both obese and it’s sheer laziness. They were both thin for most of their lives, but 10-12 years ago they became completely sedentary, i.e. refusing to even walk the one block to the store. They spend most of their evenings smoking weed, eating munchies and playing on the computer. They are incredibly unhealthy now and it is rubbing off on my wife’s youngest sister (14yo) who is now overweight. I believe a lack of exercise is a major factor in what led them to obesity. But unlike a lot of overweight people, they don’t even care/try to slim down.
My wife works incredibly hard to keep weight off. She’s a size 6 and PT’s three times a week in addition to the active things we do. Her PT involves running and weights. Lots of running.
When I boxed my walking around weight was 165-70 and my fighting weight was 155. I could get down to that weight in two days. But I worked out like a bastard to do it.
I’m sorry to say this but I agree with your docs. They say the same thing in the military, where you have to maintain measurement standards. If you fail the standards you have to do mandatory extra exercise for a few months. If you fail again, you’re gone. The military docs bluntly say, “Eat less and exercise more. Why are you even asking me how to loose weight? You know how, you’re wasting my time!” And I hate to say this but, I think that searching for proofs that the studies are flawed or the industry is just trying to get your money is never going to help you or anyone loose weight. I believe docs get frustrated telling someone that exercise, motivation, discipline and healthy foods are the way to weight loss and there isn’t any silver bullets. Then having that person tell them they are wrong and throwing in a bunch of stats. What can a doctor say to that?
Irregardless I wish you luck. Don’t give up.