Both mine BFed for years, not months.
Of course, the term “weaning” refers to the process of ingesting anything other than breastmilk, so it begins at 6 mths or whenever the child begins to eat anything else, even if only a nibble here and there and continues until they no longer nurse at all and get all their nourishment from solid food.
And BFing means nursing at all; by the time they reach a year or beyond, the frequency has declined dramatically, usually down to once a day or less.
From a nutritional standpoint, children require some form of milk for at least 1 yr., preferable longer. If they are not getting human milk, they must be given formula or cow’s milk (formula is recomended)
I always found it silly to wean them completely from the breast (since I didn’t have to) and start them on formula when I was producing an ideal milk already for free.
As for physical harm, such as rotten teeth, when a child nurses it pulls the nipple far into the mouth and the milk goes down the throat, it doesn’t pool on the teeth as can happen with a bottle, which requires much less suction to extract the milk.
Some suggest that nursing a child in bed or to sleep can damage the teeth, since there is a chance of the milk pooling on the teeth, but this was never a problem with anyone I knew. Breast milk has different sugars than formula and also doesn’t continue to leak out once active sucking has ceased.
Another benefit is that the strong sucking required to BF encourages the proper development of the jaw and also helps keep the ear canal well drained, possibly helping prevent ear infections.
The child also continues to receive immune benefits from the mother as long as they nurse, both in the form of general, non-specific immune cells which persist for life and specific immunities the mother’s body produces upon exposure to pathogens and passes on to the child.
And for the picky toddler, BFing provides a back-up nutritionally. Not to mention that it can be very helpful during times when they can’t or won’t eat anything else due to illness (as happened when my DD was 18 mths old and had to be hospitalized for 2 days and was placed on a liquid diet and had she NOT still been nursing, she would have been miserable and starved. Plus nursing comforted her tremendously.)
So yes, there are benefits to nursing beyond 6 mths. and I think just the fact that human infants need the nutrition from milk beyond 6 mths is pretty solid evidence that they are meant to nurse at least a yr. (by nature).
If you look at the average life spans, gestational periods and average period of nursing of other mammals, as one anthropologist did, it is reasonable to conclude that the “normal” duration of nursing in humans is closer to 2-3 years than 6 mths. And this is more in line with traditional practices in many cultures.