With a potential new boyfriend and a date tonight, I have been waiting for that response for 3 days. What I wanted to know is how familiar is the general male population with this (handicap?phenomenon?evidence?) I mean, is it necessary to warn a new lover that I am one of those girls?
And if I do not forwarn, is it possible that he might think (god forbid) that I have lost control of my bladder?
(and no, I have never been quite so expressive as to require a bath towel afterward, but still, the potential exists for an unexpected and somewhat unholy baptism)
I can only quote from my personal experience, and I was aware of this capability for quite a while, but never experienced it before I was priveledged enough to find my girlfriend. And I really wouldnt call it a handicap, it is something incredibly intimate and wonderfull. As to warning youre potential boyfriend about your errr…talent; one would like to think that if the date has gone that far down the line, and you are discussing in detail your capabilities, then the the rest of the night is gonna be a blast! I think the point is, dont be worried about it, if your relationship blossoms into a physical one, and he is capable of making you, errr…give vent to your talent (!), then he should be honoured! Think of it as a baptism of lust!!
Thank you, Emo and thanks to Honeydew-sharing such an intimate detail is generous to say the least.
At any rate- my lack of confidence in my new relationship has caused me to postpone our first stay at home date- I suggested a movie and dinner instead-
When I have the nerve to explain myself (a margarita might help) I will try the next step-
You know how sometimes you can yawn and a few drops of (I assume) saliva will squirt out? (I suspect this is another phenomenon that not everyone experiences.) The female ejaculations that I have seen looked a lot like that, but with slightly more liquid produced. It wasn’t like she was urinating; there was no stream shooting out of the urethra. The liquid just sort of appeared on the surface of the labia, but it appeared forcefully enough to squirt onto my face. Not much taste, certainly no urine taste that I could detect. Not as slippery as natural lubricant, but more slippery than urine.
One ex did this often, and another did it occasionally. I never took it as a sign of my prowess. I wasn’t warned about it first, and probably wouldn’t have even noticed it if my face hadn’t been right there to begin with.
Exactly- very well described. You have obviously earned your (water) wings 
And thank you, MrO, for making female ejaculation sound less dramatic and more matter-of-fact. If a man like you had been my first lover I wouldn’t be quite so defensive-
Well…you certainly can’t say something like that without expecting inquiry…
Exactly how do you know what urine tastes like?
Well, sometimes you get really thirsty while going down on a woman, and you hate to tear yourself away for a beverage break. You improvise! Some like it at body temperature, but I prefer it shaken with ice and then strained, with just a hint of vermouth.
Okay, so I’ve never drunk the stuff. It’s still unlikely that I’ve never got a molecule of urine on my tongue, what with the occasional impromptu oral sex that I may or may not have participated in as a younger man. Anyway, I know what urine smells like, and I can imagine what it tastes like. And the female ejaculate I’ve experienced didn’t taste like that, or like much of anything.
A nice thing to say! Thanks. Actually I consider it both a matter of fact and pretty dramatic. I don’t know that her prolific ejaculating was a factor, but the physical part of that relationship (with the woman who did it often) was absolutely amazing. In my mind, anything that reminds me of that is a good thing, certainly nothing to be defensive about. If someone made you feel bad about it, then shame on him.
Of course it isn’t an essential component of great sex. It can be great without it, but whenever I’ve witnessed a woman doing this, she certainly seemed to be enjoying herself. And that’s good.
I know what urine smells like. And I know what female ejaculate smells like, and the smells are radically different. I can’t imagine the two substances having the same composition. The female ejaculate that I have smelled completely lacks the acrid tang of urine, for one thing.
OK, y’all need to read G-lust and Special Sauce.
Em & Lo over at nerve.com have a new sex book out called “The Big Bang.” They are great ‘sexperts’ and their new book should be a funny, informative read. This is a chapter selection from the book, a teaser if you will. There is another chapter from the book on anal sex, if you want to continue reading. But for the OP, this answers it.
-Tcat
Well, another female ejaculator (36) chiming in.
Let me give some dry facts (pun intended) from my own experience. No flirting please.
I do not always ejaculate during orgasm, one time out of three is about average.
The amount of fluid involved ranges from a tablespoon to a little teacup.
For me, there is no link between the intensity of the orgasm and the amount ejaculated. There is a link however, in that there seems to be more ejaculate on the second or third orgasm, then on the first time.
The ejaculate is definitely not urine. As I was curious, I did some hometesting on myself, (the experiment involved tampons) that pretty much proved this.
The stuff dries up on the towel or bedsheets without even leaving a trace of a stain or a smell. It is absolutely the least cumbersome liquid imaginable in that respect.
I did not start ejaculating untill I was in my early twenties, or i’d never noticed it before.
There is a certain position (my legs stretched, my feet on either side of my BF’s neck) that causes really big streams (two cups or more) of liquid to flow. My BF can even feel this flowing along his penis. From what I’ve read, I suppose he hits my G-spot in that position, but it does not feel any different or nicer then other positions. Except for the flow of juice, which is more embarassing then anything else.
The enthusiasm by the men in this thread is not common. Of my six previous sexual partners, no-one was especially enthusiastic about me ejaculating. The usual initial response was a frown and a moodbreaking hassle with paper towels. Usually followed by a discussion about the difference between urine and ejaculate. When I was younger, I myself thought it was pee and was rather ashamed of it. But there was no way to lessen the amount of ejaculate, or to stop it from flowing out.
If anyone has factual questions, I’d be happy to answer them. No flirting, please.
I’ve experienced it from the male side, and I can confirm some observations.
It is not urine.
It poured out of her urethra.
It’s incredibly slippery and fluid.
It’s odorless.
It dries up unbelievably quickly and leaves no trace on the sheets.
It’s a blast for a guy, if he isn’t squeamish.
As a guy, you KNOW she didn’t fake that one.
I can’t imagine where it comes from. The urethra in the female is quite short, and opens into the bladder. There must be some side port into the urethra like men have with their seminal vesicles in the prostatic urethra, but I’ve never seen it mentioned in the literature.
And I read about and look at the female anatomy quite a lot at work.
Ah, the wonders of nature!
I experience this as well … especially in the morning for some reason!?! But certainly not every time, and usually as a result of solo ‘activity’. It happens for me as a result of clitoral stimulation, not G spot. Also seems to happen more readily when my bladder is full … must add to the pressure on the whole region or something?
I don’t think of it as yucky or embarrassing at all … why would it be? Guys ‘squirt’, so why shouldn’t WE??? 
Wow Maastricht, that hasn’t been my experience with male attitudes at all. I haven’t found one negative male response at all -never once. Although I do agree with most of the other things you said. More fluid does appear the more orgasms I have and it seems if they are closer togehter, it is just juicier but I always attributed that to a build up. Some positions, such as me on top seem to produce more ejaculate. The consistancy is nothing like urine - it is a thicker viscosity, clear and smells musky…like my thang…not like urine [geez…I never even thought anyone would confuse the two] and doesn’t leave a stain when it dries.
Yes, my bf can feel it on his penis and even dripping down his testicles and likes the sensation. No paper towels have ever been requested. When I cum in his mouth, he totally swallows but then he likes going down on me so that may be a factor as well.
No flirting. But, I’m very sorry your experience has been so negative. Apparently, there’s a huge difference in attitude between European men and American men. Cultural, perhaps? But, IMHO, those men need to grow up, or maybe it’s that they need to learn a thing or two about women’s sexuality. But, either way, that reaction doesn’t warrant giving them a second chance to experience what should be considered an amazing, natural, if somewhat rare, phenomenon.
Personally, I have only been with one woman who ejaculated, but you can add me to the list of admirers. She was pretty consistent, and produced fairly copious amounts; sometimes literally squirting, other times mostly just gushing. Either way, I loved it. It seemed to make the whole sex act more reciprocal. Can’t say it tasted good but, hey, she never complained, so why should I?
And, Psalex, FWIW, I agree with Emofkuniv; you should tell your new beau about your potential, if it looks like he might get to experience it. If he’s like most American males, his eyes will light up, and he will work really hard to please you, in hopes of experiencing this. I guess, if he’s continental, he’ll just roll his eyes and go get the paper towels.
Oh, and Emofkuniv, if that’s the Honeydew I think it is, stop monopolizing the poor girl! We miss her!
Aw, crap! I’m back in a sex thread. How’d that happen? Guess it’s time to break out the sig, again.
squirter here.
i started in my mid twenties. sometimes i do it, sometimes i don’t, and it doesn’t seem to matter if i am cumming or not. i can control it by either bearing down (or ‘pushing out’ as he says) and it squirts out, usually during a solo act. but not all the time.
and there is lots of it. and it is not urine, actually it tastes a bit like watered down coffee, but i drink alot of coffee. doesn’t come from the urethra. my doc says it coms from a gland inside, and is perfectly natural. he didn’t give me a scientific breakdown of the contents, but said it was similar to vaginal lubrication. i’ll see if he can give me some literature next time.
so i learned how to do it one day in the car while wearing an insertable vibrating egg. we were in the car, and i would bear down on the egg to get it toward the muscle there ( i am not used to talking about this medically), and all of a sudden, the egg shot out to the floor and so did a bunch of liquid, hitting the dash board. we were both like, what the hell was that, but i couldn’t stop. i thought i had wet myself, but a quick inspection led us to believe it was not urine.
so the night was spent practicing. i would suggest a similar set up to learn how. i imagine the egg was vibrating directly on my g-spot as i pushed it hard up against the g-spot.
i am a flirt, so go ahead if you must.
Masters & Johnson did a study on this,as part of female orgasm research. They put a camera in vaginas & watched during orgasms. I recall them finding rhythmic motions of vaginal wall, w/ increased secretion. I don’t recall anything about ejaculation. The book is long out of print ,but shoud be readily available. As an aside, they were forced to shut down- many female subjects had husbands, who sued M&J out of business.
It happens to me as well. Discovered it as well as the multiple orgasm with the second guy I dated.
As for my partners, I always tell them beforehand. I say “if I come hard enough, I will squirt”. With the last guy, it became a joke that I had given him His First Wet One, apologies to Mattel.
It’s pee it’s pee it’s pee it’s pee it’s pee!!!
Yeah, those Euro blokes are a lot more sexually repressed than their American counterparts. Snort.
I wouldn’t take Maastricht’s sample size of 6 as indicative of the entire male population of Europe, per se.
Err, well, so far my contribution to this thread.