I have a 4 1/2 month old that we had previously rocked to sleep in our arms every night, as well as every time he would wake up during the night. But lately he has been waking up the instant he hits the crib mattress, waking up numerous times during the night (to feed, or just be comforted), and not napping much during the day.
So, I finally convinced my wife to let me try a Ferber approach, and let him cry it out (it’s only been 2 days, and she agreed to give it 10…so…hopefully we’ll see improvement soon ).
Anyhow, so we’ve been reading some advice that suggests a regular schedule, as well as regular naps. But he’s of a similar disposition regarding naps – i.e., he will nap in our arms, or in the stroller, or during a car-ride, but he’s not consistent with his naptimes, and he is very difficult to transfer to the crib once he’s down for a nap… So I’m wondering, should “cry it out” apply to the daytime naps as well? He’s a very active baby, and if left to his own devices, I have no doubt he could stay up all day laughing and eating and munching on teething devices (ok, he’d probably spend some of that time crying as well…). But he can be very hard to get down even during the day. If we don’t Ferberize him for his day naps, are we defeating the purpose of trying to get him to figure out how to get to sleep on his own at night? I’m sure some Dopers have tried Ferber, so I’m wondering if anyone out there had a similar problem with daytime naps…?
Also, how long did it take your baby to get the hang of going to sleep? I’ve heard everywhere from a couple days to a week, and all the books we’ve read agree that we should see a change in a short period of time.
–KidScruffy
*For those who haven’t heard the term: The Ferber Method