If you’re into arts and crafts type stuff, take a side trip to Berea. The historic downtown area is chock-full of shops selling the work of local artists and craftspeople. Some of it’s your typical Kuntry Krafts Krap, but a lot of it is really amazing. IIRC, Mitchell Tolle has his gallery there, too. Berea’s about 45 minutes south of Lexington.
Waveland Estate, on Nicholasville Road just past Man O’ War, is also beautiful. I’ve never been on the house tour, but we’ve taken picnics to the grounds several times. I imagine the tour’s a whole lot like Ashland, which was pretty cool.
The best park in the city is probably Jacobsen Park. There’s a large lake where you can fish or rent paddle boats, a really fun playground, tons of walking and bike paths, and plenty of open space to hang out and people watch, play frisbee, or whatever.
On the Fourth, there’s a parade, fireworks, and such downtown. The best place to watch the fireworks is from the top level of the parking garage a block or so down High from the Hyatt. If you want any good fireworks, though, you’ll have to bring them from home. Bottle rockets, etc., are illegal in Ky. The Herald-Leader should have a full schedule of festivities either online or in that day’s edition.
Equus Vineyards does tours, I think, and they’re out by the Horse Park. Of course, if you’re willing to drive the hour or so to the other side of Bardstown, you can get a taste of a fine old Kentucky tradtition. The Maker’s Mark distillery does free tours, and you can hand-dip your own bottle. The bottle’s a bit expensive, but the dipping is just too cool, and I thought the tour was really fun. You can also sign up to be a Maker’s Mark ambassador, which comes with all sorts of neat little perks.
It’s a shame you’re coming at a time that Keeneland’s not running. There is absolutely no way I’d rather spend a weekend afternoon than at Keeneland. It’s quite possibly thte most beautiful track in the country. The horses, the food, critiquing the outfits in the crowd (especially the suits and heels of the women teetering through the saddling paddock), it’s really wonderful. You guys will have to come back during April or October some year.