French schoolkids no longer welcome in US.

Ricky (Can I call you Ricky? Thanks!), you don’t want to hear about ethnic cleansing. Oh sure, you think it’s all glamour, but let me tell you: It’s a dreary business. Long hours, repetitive work, low pay. More like a factory job than what the recruiting posters were advertising!

But I would love to be regaled by stories about the Canadian Paratroopers! Preferably a story about some exotic locale, like…Somalia! What would be really great would be a story about the rough-and-tumble troops taking a Somali youth under their wing, teaching him about the hard-knocks of life!

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I am trying to see the connection between sitting at the front of a bus and fucking with nuclear tests. Hrmmmm. No, no, I can’t see it. DAMN MY MENTAL MYOPIA!

But help me, Ricky. Help me be a better person!

I will go and have a ‘protest march’ for whatever issue you want. Globalization? Equal rights for Canadians? Monkeypox? You name it, I will vigorously protest for it.

You run towards a nuclear storage facility while screaming, “NOOO!! I MUST SAVE MOTHER EARTH!!!”.

Afterwards, we can share, compare, and contrast our experiences! Help me help myself, Ricky.

oh, and apologies about all the typos and spelling mistakes.

I’m in work so this had to be done in a hurry.

Umm… gosh, are you saying you’re a war criminal? That’s quite a thing to admit. I’ll be sure to remember that.

I can’t see any connection between raping little girls and being a soldier, either.

You’ve done quite enough marching.

Brutus, do you have friends?

I’m sorry, but I don’t think you understand. Your assertion is that unless I can provide links to online sources showing an “uproar” in the US press, then anti-French bias is the “accepted behaviour” in the US? So unless I can refute your point by doing this, you are correct? It doesn’t work that way in debate.

The burden is on you to prove your point, and proving it by a lack of online links to the “US press” (whatever that means; I don’t think you have a any real concept of the press of a continent-wide country of 300 million persons which has little to no governmental control or oversight over tens of thousands of independent journalistic sources, but I digress) does not wash.

It didn’t wash when I incorrectly stated that a lack of outcry by Muslim press sources and Muslim clerics implied that terror and terrorism were “accepted behaviour”. I got called on that, and I’m calling you on the same tactic. Why don’t you back up your assertion first that anti-French bias is the “accepted behaviour” here? Or, are you going to back me up and assert with the same, exact intensity that a lack of “uproar” in the Muslim press implies that terrorism is the “accepted behaviour”?

Do you see why what you are saying doesn’t work? You can’t have it both ways.

I have read a multitude of op-ed pieces decrying the “freedom fries” and other stunts as silly and ignorant in USA Today and the WSJ, as well as my local paper. None of these is readily available online to link to, so I guess they don’t exist, since nothing that isn’t online is important anymore… Most journalistic sites require “free registration” which I won’t do. But all of that is beside, above, and beyond the point that you need to prove your assertion, not I.

I also respectfully take issue with another point of yours: I assert that boycotts against the products of a nation target “individuals” as well. They have a direct, economic impact on the workers, producers, marketers, retailers, and all persons involved. When the French burn down a McDonald’s or block lorries of British beef at the ferries, or dump Coke into the gutters in Nice, they are targeting individuals. Pretending that it’s only hurting a big, faceless corporation is short-sighted. Otherwise, by your metrics I could argue that no one targeted the schoolkids as individuals - they only didn’t want to participate in the organization and the program from a national standpoint.

We both agree that the withdrawal of the hosting families is a stupid, dumb-assed think for them to do, and without honor. I think we both agree that this should raise some alarm bells with respect to the methods of qualifying host families. But I think we are having a failure to communicate on what constitutes proof of this alleged accepted behaviour of the US.

seemingly so.
I hope i cleared things up a bit.
And the other option I gave, was ignored. Could that possibly be true? Not that it’s accepted, but that those incidents, when they do occur, are largely ignored by mainstream US media? Again, a genuine question.

You did not use the word “seem” in this quote:

(emphasis added)

Now do you see why I objected? Those are your words up there, not mine. You do not refer to “seem” once in here, despite saying you made “frequent use” of it - you made an assertion that I highlighted above. You said it “means”, not that it “seems”. Yet you claim you made no assertion…? Can you tell me why that doesn’t match with what you said?

I’m sorry if it appears I ignored you on your other option. What other option? It was hard to read the last post prior. Would you mind re-phrasing it?

Could it be true that instances of discrimination are largely ignored by the mainstream US media? Sure, it could be. Is it likley? I can say “No, IMO.”, but that carries no factual basis. Considering the scandal-mongering and legal/litigation-mongering aspect of society here, I somehow doubt that anything like that would be ignored. But I would have no way to factually say yes or no.

While Brutus has proven himself to be a Grade-A Prime Asshole and Certified Jerkwad, I don’t think he qualifies for being a war criminal… yet.

But hey, the week’s young.

elfje:

I would expect that if the exact same situation (in reverse) happened (let’s say a French friend of mine who was against the war talking civilly about it to me and two American buddies who supported the war, and the conversation happened in, say, Chicago, and some drunk American rudely denounced the French guy as a “cheese eating surrender monkey”), I feel confident in saying that my American buddies and I would tell the guy to screw off. In other words, no damn different than you.

If we repeated this particular scenario enough times to get a representative sample, yes, you would get some instances where the asshats would prevail. Then again, if you repeated the scenario I mentioned around Europe enough times to get a representative sample, I imagine that you would also get some instances where the asshats would prevail.

But as Anthracite put it, to “speculate from a single incident in Germany reported by a Doper here to what would happen in the US with no real definition as to the events, actions, reactions, situation, location, or evidence whatsoever” is patently ridiculous.

Of course it’s spiteful. But now that Anthracite has posted two examples of the same kind of spite infecting a few numbnuts in Europe, I’m sure you will use them to imply that Europe and its entire citizenry are infected with the same kind of ignorant mentality.

Now, confronted with these few incidents in Europe, I’m sure you’ll start another thread using these examples as evidence of anti-American hysteria in Europe, and rail against it with the same vehemence with which you started this thread.

Yeah you were. How else do you explain your inane thread title: “French schoolkids no longer welcome in US.”? You wanted to post this isolated incident of Americans acting like jerks and invite a good ol’ fashioned anti-American pile-on - fun for the whole family!! Maybe you wanted to feel culturally superior, since you sniffed:

Furthermore, let’s be honest. If one of us Americans Dopers had gone to MEMRI.org and cherry-picked some Egyptian or Saudi invective against America and then used it to imply Egyptians or Saudis were hate-filled freaks, you know good and goddamn well the flood of Dopers would descend on the American Doper like flies on shit.

Why aren’t you, as well as the rest of the European and international dopers, as well as Americans who should know better, doing the same thing when the target is America (or an American)? We all know why – America (and its citizens) is a convenient fat fucking punching bag. Fine, I guess it goes with the territory of being the global Big Man on Campus. But, as Anthracite said, you sure as hell aren’t fighting ignorance.

You know, yesterday around 20,000 flights or so took off and landed safely in the U.S. News of this feat did not make the American press. Therefore, since I didn’t read about it in the New York Times, I guess those flights did not happen.

But since you were wondering:

Anti-French stupidity blasted by Newsday

Anti-France stupidity blasted by Las Vegas Review-Journal

There. Are you satisfied?

The overwhelming majority of Americans don’t condone stupid anti-French behavior, no matter whether we supported the war or not. You’ve now read more than a few posts on this thread from Americans who actually LIVE HERE and rightly claim there is no widespread campaign of hate and discrimination against the French (or any other Europeans). Will you – as well as other international Dopers who feel the same way about America(ns) as elfje seems to – please give AT LEAST equal weight to these anecdotal stories (which I guarantee are much closer to the TRUTH) as you gleefully give to this unfortunate incident among a couple of stupid Americans?

Will you please cease slandering our country – or at least slander your own countries or other countries that have parallel examples of anti-American crap as the story of the moronic American parents with the same vehemence?

In other words, be fucking consistent.

elfje:

The point I was trying to make can be found in the paragraph I wrote directly underneath my anecdote. Specifically,

elfje:

By your logic, since I got called a “fucking American bastard” by one guy in Germany, I can conclude the prevailing German zeitgeist is anti-American drunk dickheadedness. After all, since a few American parents turned out to be idiot Francophobes, you’ve concluded that somehow, this is the default American reaction to anything French.

No, the much more reasonable conclusion I can draw from my unfortunate incident in Munich is that my three German buddies are far more representative of their country’s people than the drunk guy. I can conclude that from actually having BEEN to Germany and witnessing first-hand how hospitable they really are.

I respectfully ask that you give us the same benefit of the doubt. Better yet, come across the pond and see for yourself. And bring a Frenchman with you. Preferably a rich one, so he can buy all the drinks. :smiley:

Has anyone ever seen a junior varsity team play the seasons’ last game, when the team’s best fan is dressed out and allowed to sit on the sidelines?

Someday, as the horses clop past the Capitol bulding of the United States in a suburb of Provo, Utah, a lead-suit clad President Bush is going to hand a jersey over to Brutus with the number “0” on it.

Congratulations, Brutus, for showing your support for the team.

There are some fascinating (to me, at least) tidbits hidden in this story.

  1. Springside School, the Chestnut Hill (Philadelphia), Pennsylvania private girls’ school that has unilaterally cancelled this exchange, is an exclusive “preppy” school in a very upscale suburb. The fees are US$17,900 per year (according to this site), and it is an archetype of the East Coast US “elite” private school. There is a similar boys’ school acros the street. The kids tend to have parents who in the past have been drawn to the “snob value” of learning French. Given Chestnut Hill’s exclusivity, I would think that the chance of French exchange kids being treated badly in public anywhere near there is close to zero.

  2. The news story linked to above, gives a French perspective. It’s in French, which I realize means that most Dopers won’t be able to read it. However, I tried running it through Google’s Translation Page, to see how good a job it would do, and was impressed with the result. There are mistakes, of course, but the gist is accurate IMHO. One thing this story mentions that the Daily Telegraph link doesn’t is that the French school in question (lycée Jules Fil in Carcassonne) also has an exchange with a school in Jackson, Mississippi. In 2003, the French were going to host the Mississippians and then spend three weeks in Philadelphia.

In a twist that some may consider ironic, the folks from Mississippi (which is stereotyped as being much more backward, redneck, and – as the French article says – “des ploucs”) are keen on maintaining the exchange. It’s the wealthy suburban Philadelphians who are killing the deal, for 2003 and 2004 at least.

  1. Both the Daily Telegraph and transfert.net links refer to "“A Pennsylvania senator has introduced a bill in the state legislature to ban the sale of all French alcohol in the state liquor stores.” (Those words are from the Telegraph). I assume this in reference to PA Representative Steve Barrar (Republican). Do any Keystone State Dopers know what happened to this legislation? IIRC, in Pennsylvania, state-owned liquor stores are about the only place a member of the public can buy wine, non? Wouldn’t this be a pretty major deal if it passed?

Personal Note: I have been to Springside School. It is not “Middle America” by any stretch of the imagination. In fact – and this is why this turn of events is particularly interesting to me – a very close friend of mine taught at Springside, and actually ran the French Exchange program there (the one with Carcassonne that is being cancelled for 2003 and 2004) at one point.

Goheels

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For fuck sake Goheels, are we to start threads every time we see any sort of injustice at all? how do you know that we don’t speak out against unfair “anti-american” actions? I recall most of the eurodopers denouncing the attack on the cemetry in France. or is it a case of Silence equalling consent?

You’re simply putting opinions in peoples heads with know knowledge of how they would actually react.

I took this to be sidewise reference to Brutus’ service, as I recall, with the fine Croat forces sometime in the past decade or at least his strenuous defence of the same.

ok.

I don’t understand what you are trying to get at, but I like it.

I am.

Ok, elfje, if you don’t stop putting the whole of your reply inside the quotes, I’m going to hunt you down and slap you with a rotten herring. It’s driving me nuts. :slight_smile:

Otherwise, you seem to be a nice, if misguided, person.

Fair enough. I think we’ve made our positions clear to each other, and I understand yours.

I really hate this sort of thing between France and the US, and France and the UK. Especially as I’ve spent so much time in France and never had anything to complain about other than an attack in the Paris Metro.

Upon reflection, I wonder if there should not be some sort of substantial financial penalties for entering into a contract to support an exchange student and withdrawing for frivilous or assholic reasons (have to ask my attorney how to put “assholic” in my next contract). Or some sort of public exposure of the people who withdraw.

The article talking about “unpleasantness” is bizzare to say the least. I spent some serious time searching for articles of persons being attacked in the US for being French, and could not find a single one. I’m much more at risk being a lesbian than French in the US.

You know what happened when post 9/11 was in full force, elfje? You want to know what the full force of the simmering hatred in mid-America here, Kansas City, a metro area population of more than a million?

Someone called a mosque and left threatening messages on their answering machine. This simple and dumbass act became the lead story in the media here for nearly a solid week. Someone also sprayed some badly mis-spelled graffiti on a bridge. This prompted a “peace march”.

Well shit fire and save the matches - I’ll wager I’ve had more threatening messages on my answering machine than the mosque has.

And, of course, the fact that the Jewish Community Center and Menorah Medical Center get about 1-2 anonymous hate-calls a week is brushed over as well…

What we are trying to say is that for people to even imply that there is some sort of simmering anti-French attitude here is, in the anecdotal (and thus, of little, but some value) as alien as saying that “every time I go to Dublin, I am amazed at the hatred shown towards Navaho Indians. My God, when will the Hate stop???” :wink: