You know, I’ve never had a particular reason to dislike you, Chefguy. But that crosses well over the line.
A dear friend of mine – we’ll call her Jennifer – was about to graduate from seminary. We’d been meeting each other for dinner every couple of weeks or so, chatting online, all the like. She never pushed her religion on me, never tried to make me anything I wasn’t. She just lived by example, and for a person like her that was more than enough.
It was her last night in town – she was packed up and ready to move – when we were going to meet at a restaurant for a little farewell dinner. I got to the restaurant and waited… and waited, and waited for her to show up. There was no sign of her for about forty-five minutes, and as I was on a lunch hour, I picked up and went back to work.
I got a call about thirty minutes later from the hospital downtown. Jennifer had been in a car accident. By some miracle she survived the impact of a drunk driver in a Suburban T-boning her little Saturn sedan. The impact was on the driver’s side. She broke a leg, but we were just glad to have her in one piece.
I visited her in the hospital the next day and heard the news about the proceedings. The driver who hit her reported the damage to her insurance company but not the injuries to Jennifer or the fact that she’d been intoxicated.
“She’s ashamed,” I said. “And afraid.” I couldn’t help feeling disgust.
“I know,” said Jennifer. She looked troubled. “I wish I could talk to her – help her. She must be going through a terrible time right now.”
Jennifer said this from her hospital bed, all worry and anxiety over someone who nearly killed her by their own gross neglicence and stupidity. She was more concerned over their mental wellbeing than she was over her own physical troubles.
Isn’t it possible – just possible – that some people enter the clergy because they seriously want to help people? Does this prejudice of yours only apply to Christians, or do rabbis fall under the swathe of your broad brush? Do Buddhist monks and nuns? The Dalai Lama? All ticks on humanity’s ass?
After hearing about things like this bishop I get physically ill. So do the clergypeople I’ve known. I know some people join the clergy so they can have an entire pack of wide-eyed followers ready to be led into whatever swamp the unscrupulous bastard fancies. I know some people who do it for the tax break. I know some people who will follow anything their clergy says. A man I once had tremendous respect for actually said the words “Vote for X! She goes to my church, so she HAS to be good.”
But damning every single member of a very large community that many people join specifically so they can help people and make their lives better? You can’t be that ignorant.