As a gay man, I find the ‘blanket’ ban on donating blood offensive and ignorant. I’ve spoken to two dotors, one being an Infectious Disease Specialist who is well-known and highly respected by other doctors across the country. Both agreed that the ban is NOT based on scientific fact or medical risk of any sort. Modern screening processes for blood products are 100% effective in detecting the vast majority of STDs, HIV and Hepatitis especailly!
I take three meds for anxiety/depression/panic attacks (Paxil CR, Luvox and good ol’ Valium), a ‘psychostimulant’ to combat the fatigue and near-narcolepsy from Sleep Apnea (Nuvigil), an amphetamine for my severe Adult ADD (Adderall), two for Chrohn’s Disease (Bentyl,Linzess), a proton pump inhibitor for Peptic Ulcer Disease (Nexium) and a cocktail of Amoxicillin and Tetracycline whenever my ulcers flare up and/or start bleeding (to fight the H. Pylori bacteria infection that cause the Peptic Ulcer ‘flare ups’ (at least twice and as many as five times per year). To counteract the side effects of the Linzess and Nexium, I also take Phenergan for nausea and Fiorcet for heachaches that feel more like an aneurism in progress.
I also had a two-level (C4/5 & C5/6) Cervical Spine Fusion in 2005 (at the ripe old age of 30) and just found out two weeks ago that the disc at C3/4 is herniated and will require surgery within the next 6-8 months. In the meantime, it randomly presses against my spinal cord and hurts like a MoFo in my neck, shoulder and/or right arm when that happens. So now I’m taking Ultram for minor to moderate pain and have Dilaudid as an emergency backup (but it totally fucks with my gastro issues and meds)! Ironically, given the issues and meds I take, I need Ambien to knock me out at night. It’s amazing (and more than just a little scary) that I’'m fully functional (or at least I give that illusion to others)!
There is a price to pay for the benefit of all these drugs, though- my sex drive disappeared mroe than five years ago. I’m a 38-year old, vaguely attractive gay man who doesn’t date or have sex…and it doesn’t even bother me anymore…I just say that I’m celibate (but don’t bother to mention the meds) and then I can cast dispersions on other gay men and be completey justifed in feeling and acting morally superior to them!
So what about gay men who have been celibate for a long time? Their blood donation would pose less risk than any sexually active men or women, gay, str8 or bi!
For me, this is an issue of principal. I want and deserve the right to donate blood, but I wouldn’t ever actually do it unless someone’s life depended on it. One reason why is because I am HORRIFIED of needles and I often pass out when having blood drawn for regular lab work! I had outpatient surgery on my right hand last year (carpal tunnel release) and I passed out at my pre-op when the nurse drew blood. When she started looking for a good vein and prepping the needle and vials, I was having chest pains…then 10 minutes later, I woke up laying in the floor with her waving alcohol swabs under my nose trying to bring me to! But she was smart enough to get the blood as I was fading out and before I hit the floor…
But the real issue, beyond my irrational fears, is the long list of heavy-duty prescription drugs I take every day! The last mosquito that bit me is still at the Betty Ford Clinic! =)