Hello, and welcome to another edition of “When Ingorance Attacks: The Dangers of Letting People Who Don’t Know Anything About Science Think About Science,” hosted by me.
So my first cousin just became a father and once again, both our family and his wife’s family gathered around and said “wow, no one’s ever going to question who that baby’s father is!” because the little tyke looks like a “Mini Me” version of my cousin (and also because we do tacky things like pretend to speculate on the parentage of newborn infants). This is one of those family lore things – as an extended family, we seem to have a strong “look.” This has been observed by other, non-family members, oftentimes in-laws who are perplexed as to why their grandchildren resemble our side of the family so strongly. It’s the sort of thing where “little Suzy is the spitting image of her mother … but I guess you can see a little of her dad around her eyes” so I’m not claiming that anyone looks like an actual clone of one parent, but more of a predominating family resemblance.
In an other example, my brother and I recently took our father’s cousin’s five year old son … is that our second cousin? … on an outing. Two people (like random passers by) commented to my brother that “his son” was a chip off the old block, because they looked so much alike. The kid’s actual father wasn’t with us, and if he was, I think people would have been much more likely to guess that he, not my brother, was the father, although he and my brother do look more like siblings than cousins.
The source of “the look” is my paternal grandmother and her siblings, who all strongly resembled each other. So, if my calculations are correct, this little boy and my brother only share two of fourteen great-grandparents.
So I’m pondering why this is. Here is what I came up with. Could you Dopers who actually know how human genetics work shed some light on what’s going on?
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The possibility that we’re vain, self-centered people who like to think we all look alike, and impose this view on the way we see each other. We see “the look” because we’re expecting to see it. Strong possibility here.
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We’re secretly inbreding. :eek: I would like to think this is not the case, but I suppose I have to add it to the list for the sake of thoroughness.
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Even though we’re a somewhat large family, however in terms of the general population, we’re not talking about a statistically significant sample. The roll of dice in whether one takes after mom or dad is what’s at play, and even though it might be somewhat unusual in the small view, the larger picture isn’t really unusual at all.
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I don’t know enough about genetics to explain this one well, but another factor here is that (as of yet) no one has partnered with people who are from very different ethnic backgrounds as our own. So I’m wondering if maybe the elements that make up “the look” are fairly common within this ethnic background, and that “the look” isn’t really our family’s look, but more of an amalgam of features typical of our background. For example, going away to college is a fairly new thing in my family, so I think in the future people would be more likely to meet and date and marry and reproduce with partners from a greater variety of backgrounds.
In a larger sense, I guess I’m asking if some genes are more likely to show themselves than other genes. I feel a little creepy saying there might be “strong genes” because that sounds a little … well, master race-ish, and I don’t intend it to be that at all (and as far as I know, no one would design a master race with the big, horsey teeth that we’ve got going on). I know the high school bio class basics about recessive genes, like how two blue-eyed people won’t have a child with brown eyes, but that’s not quite what I’m talking about. By the way, the blue eye thing is always the example of a recessive gene – are there other genes in people that will always trump their counterparts? I’m thinking about genes for characteristics that are harmless, like curly v. straight hair, as opposed to a recessive gene linked to an inherited disease, for example.